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 Mar 31 2005, 08:43 PM
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**I'm O sO fLy**  Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,281  |
Well I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend... But i've been goin' out with ppl since 4th grade.... And i guess my parents don't want me to have a boyfriend is b/c they think i will have a baby and end up doin' bad things... this is not true... that's not me. i know what's right from wrong and i know when goin' to far is and i need to stop. I currently have a boyfriend and he treats me great but my dad now doens't allow any boys callin' my house anymore defitnally him b/c my dad heard him say " I love you " and i got caught... I am still with this guy and i just dunno what to tell my parents it's just sad and confusing for me to keep hiding these things from him... I need a boy their to comfort me and be loved and i love him back alot but i ono how to tell my parents...
how can i get this through to my parents? so they will allow me to have boyfriends? 
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Mar 31 2005, 09:15 PM
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I had that problem. Acutally, it was just a guy FRIEND. And my mom's overprotective just like your dad.
So if you run into this situation, my best suggestion is to tell them the truth. If you're the girl who lies to your parents, just say, that it was a joke. He's just a guy FRIEND nothing is going on between us! Again, it was just a joke. And act calm about it. If not, then be honest. If you know you're a good girl, and they don't, you should just explain to them how you are who you are and not the girl that they think you are. |
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Mar 31 2005, 09:35 PM
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**I'm O sO fLy** Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,281 |
QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Mar 31 2005, 9:15 PM) I had that problem. Acutally, it was just a guy FRIEND. And my mom's overprotective just like your dad. So if you run into this situation, my best suggestion is to tell them the truth. If you're the girl who lies to your parents, just say, that it was a joke. He's just a guy FRIEND nothing is going on between us! Again, it was just a joke. And act calm about it. If not, then be honest. If you know you're a good girl, and they don't, you should just explain to them how you are who you are and not the girl that they think you are.  i've told my dad that we were just friends but he didn't care... I've been caught only twice with my 1st b/f and my b/f now... i've always had this trouble and now i think i need to do something 'bout this |
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AznVi3tGrl Boyfriends....Parents.... Mar 31 2005, 08:43 PM
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try to show yo... Apr 1 2005, 12:11 AM YoGrandpaIsFine Same here. I never tell my parents. I don't kn... Apr 1 2005, 12:24 AM AznVi3tGrl QUOTE(im_s0_sp0ngey @ Apr 1 2005, 12:24 AM)Sa... Apr 1 2005, 07:11 AM HoodieObsessed I definitly don't have that problem.
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