Summer 2004, Was it a huge mistake? Options

[ChEeR A HOliC Xo]

This past summer camp was pretty boring. That was untill my sister introduced to one of the guy`s she met. He was 14 at the time, i was 13. We spent time together and grew closer. We dated for a couple of month`s but we got caught making out, but my mother claim`s he was on top of me doing more. Whatever that`s not what happened anyways, my sister made a rude comment to him about him trying to rape me he got really pissed off and bodyslammed her. Of course it was on the sand, but it still hurt her. She hate`s him and my mom does also. He broke up with me afterward`s because he claimed i deserved more. But today March 27 2005 We still have feelings for eachother. We talk online and everything i love talking to him. He was my first true love. And you know what they say your first love never dies. I spend day`s crying myself to sleep over this. He just kinda left, and now this summer he is returning.. he hasent moved on. But should i still see him. Whenever i bring this up my mom always bitches at me. She said we are not alowed to be more then friends. Which sucks cause i want more then anything to be in his arm`s again. I know he would never hurt me. But is it worth getting my heart broken and perhaps ruining mine and my mothers relationship again. My situation is simular to the movie "The Notebook" Parents made us break it off...but we still love eachother more then anything.

[HoodieObsessed]

awww, I jsut saw the note book mega tearjerker..anyways that's not the point, bassically all the advice I have for you is ...errr...hmmmm, I really don't know...I dont' have any advice for you...this is kidna a tough situation...

maybe you should still see him but dont' tell yer parents, if you guys decide to be just freinds than tha'ts great, everyone's happy, but if you guys really love eachother and your feeligns are mutual than I don't think you should split up just cause of your mom and dad...that's not right maybe you should take some advice form the notebook and think for yourself...like what do you want? lol, haha, th'ats probably pretty stupid but hey, someitmes you need to forget your parents and your sisters and everyone else and jsut decide what you want, at least then you ahve a more clear idea of what you want to happen

sorry I wasn't of more help, I've never been in lvoe so far...

this is just so wrong...he bodyslammed your sister, she's your family, it doesn't matter if he was pissed or she set him off, that's not how you handle something

my dear, as much as most of us would not like to admit, mothers know best, she's been through these types of things and knows more than she'll let you know, she's just trying to look out for you.  from what i read, he seems to be very violent, is this what you want to marry? 

the point of dating is to find your husband

hmm, I kidna agree with that too actually, bodyslamming your sister was a bit mean...and if he did that once he could do it again, I donno...I guess you'll have to decide I can't really help you

I had a talk with her last night, just because i been thinking about everything u guy`s been saying. And i decided when this summer roll`s by were just going to be friends. NOTHING more, cause he has issues and he can do that to me he is bipolar, one min hes fine then the next hes all depressed, but when hes with me he is fine. I dont know.. u guys made me think and im to young to fall in love with a guy with this many problems. I am not the kind of person to let go that easy, i still like him, but its what i need to do, i dont want to go through all that fighting with my mom again. 

well, that osunds like a pretty good plan..I think