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abusive relationships, have you ever
Hiphop d[-_-]b
post Mar 30 2005, 12:24 PM
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Have you ever been in an abusive relationship ? Either physically abusive or mentally abusive ?

Physically - Could be a boyfriend a friend or a parent that hits you or causes you harm
Metnally- A friend/boyfriend/parent who puts you down

I have. My Ex would force me to do things with him I didnt want to do, and if I didnt he would get mad an hurt me. He tried to force me to have sex give him blowjobs,handjobs,finger or go downon me. He would usually just push me or throw me into things, but on occasion he would punch me or slap me or kick me. Thankfully, i got out of the relationship because i came across a book about abusive relationships and realized i had to get out. So we broke up and he threatened to get me shot up, but now he acts as if nothing happened.

So, have any of your ever been in an abusive relationship ?
 
 
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Nicole0402
post Mar 30 2005, 08:15 PM
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Wow... cry.gif sorry. My sister was in an abusive relationship. A bad one. The worst thing was that she had recently gotten in a car accident, broke both of her legs, and crushed her right ankle. And she is only like..5'2, So she turned to her boyfriend to support her. Well he abused her, and she couldnt run away from it. Her leg finally healed enough to where she could walk on it a little. One night he got drunk and wanted to have sex with her, but she didn't want to. He put a gun to her head and ripped her jeans off, and her shirt, and was laying on top of her. Well she got the courage to punch him, and since he was drunk, he flipped over the bed. She ran out of the room, grabbed a shirt, and ran down the street to a neighbor and called the cops( ina only a flannel shirt and socks)(we giggle about that). Broke her ankle all over again becasue it just barley healed, and her ankle still isnt right.

MY POINT! is that I'm glad you got out of it before something serious happened!!! cool.gif
 

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Hiphop d[-_-]b   abusive relationships   Mar 30 2005, 12:24 PM
mzkandi   first i am very sorry to read about you being in a...   Mar 30 2005, 12:51 PM
Nicolatofu   I'm sorry you went through such a traumatic ex...   Mar 30 2005, 01:02 PM
azn.peace.maker   yea really sorry to hear that.. well no i havnt so...   Mar 30 2005, 01:17 PM
sportschick1   man im sorry i dont know how you feel casue i...   Mar 30 2005, 04:38 PM
mouse_3k   Mentally kinda but it kinda made me stronger so I ...   Mar 30 2005, 04:41 PM
AngelTears   QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Mar 30 2005, 4:41 PM)Mentall...   Mar 30 2005, 05:13 PM
Wolverine0723   QUOTE(hiphop junkie @ Mar 30 2005, 9:24 AM)ha...   Mar 30 2005, 05:07 PM
____simpLicity x   never have been in that kind of reLationship ...   Mar 30 2005, 05:17 PM
AznVi3tGrl   not by my b/f they all treat me well... i choose g...   Mar 30 2005, 05:20 PM
--x who0ps   kinda i guess. well my parents hit me & stuff....   Mar 30 2005, 05:49 PM
bby_cutie   First of all, i feel really sorry for you, your bf...   Mar 30 2005, 05:50 PM
Shortiiex   he is d*ck.....i have never been abused that badly...   Mar 30 2005, 06:41 PM
i heart john   My baby's daddy used to beat me up. I broke my...   Mar 30 2005, 06:43 PM
s0pnayish   An ex-boyfriend was mentally abusing me. He was on...   Mar 30 2005, 06:49 PM
tmauze   i'm so sorry!! but no, i haven't...   Mar 30 2005, 07:23 PM
Nicole0402   Wow... sorry. My sister was in an abusive relatio...   Mar 30 2005, 08:15 PM
ChEeR A HOliC Xo   Wow, i`m sorry to hear that. But you managed t...   Mar 30 2005, 08:22 PM
yellowgurl   wow.. i feel so srry for you.. well at least thats...   Mar 30 2005, 10:39 PM
dani41790   my mom abuses me mentally   Mar 31 2005, 12:15 AM
KbabyLS7   wow that sucks... nobody deserves that. I've b...   Mar 31 2005, 12:48 AM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   i kno i should report him but im scared, plus it w...   Mar 31 2005, 12:05 PM
boo! grr...   QUOTEb' date='Apr 1 2005, 12:05 AM' po...   Nov 25 2006, 02:11 AM
swe3ttemptasian   my parents always put me down by saying im stupid ...   Mar 31 2005, 01:21 PM
BELLA_RAGAZZA   i have never been in an abusive relationship. i...   Mar 31 2005, 01:40 PM
illuminessence   One of my exes manipulated me into thinking he was...   Mar 31 2005, 02:16 PM
xquizit   QUOTE(illuminessence @ Mar 31 2005, 2:16 PM)O...   Apr 2 2005, 05:14 PM
FoOd   Oh yes, I have been in an abusive relationship wit...   Mar 31 2005, 02:32 PM
Wo0yaPo0ya   No, I have not. I would get out of the relationshi...   Nov 24 2006, 08:01 PM
Mr. Slowjamz   i have never ever hit a girl ....actually once jus...   Nov 25 2006, 03:53 PM
a painefull euphoria   i was. but i got my revenge by breaking both of hi...   Nov 25 2006, 06:55 PM
x1227x   nah, and god forbid that to happen   Nov 25 2006, 11:50 PM


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