Help me!!!!!!!! i dont no wat 2 do, relationship problems |
 Mar 28 2005, 02:49 PM
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i am in love w/ my b/f. we've been dating for about 4 months.
  but resently, we've been having alot of fights. i love him and i dont want 2 break-up w/ him so i need some advice.  see, wat happens is, that i guess im getting bored in this relationship. its just the same old same old and it gets boring. he never really does nething, all he really does is kiss and hold me. thats good on some ocations but not all the time. so when i want 2 play around and be lustful, he never does anything. its like hes scared r sumthing and i get bored. i want him 2 be more aggressive and playful and not be afriad and i've told him that. he still doesnt do anything tho. im even getting bored w/ kissing him. i told him that, but he says hes not getting bored w/ it. i just cant do the same thing over and over cuz it gets boring, its like going 2 skool. i feel so bad becuz i mad him feel bad and becuz i want more out of this relationship and hes fine the way it is. please help me. tell me wat 2 do!!!!!!!!!!  i love him and i dont want the relationship 2 end.
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Mar 29 2005, 07:28 PM
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life is so ironic... Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,671 |
Most relationships get boring by the 3rd month and feel the urge to break up. That happened to me many times during my 2 year relationship. i had this feeling like i can do better and hes so boring but truth is i'd rather be w. him than any other hot, funny, charming guy or even stars.
About the fights: talk about it with him first, let him know how much ever u guys fight u can work/talk it out. let him know that when u guys fight u still love him A LOT. When your playing around being lustful, some guys dont do anything because they expect the grl to do everything. some guys like the grl to be incontrol when playful actions occur If you do love him you wouldnt think he was that boring. He thinks ur great n hes not bored cuz he still loves you. |
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lilb15 Help me!!!!!!!! i dont no wat 2 do Mar 28 2005, 02:49 PM
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When did you talk to him abo... Mar 28 2005, 03:33 PM lilb15 i talked 2 him about it about a month ago....its n... Mar 28 2005, 03:51 PM d3lightx3 Oh damn, Hmm. I dont know then. I guess theres a... Mar 28 2005, 03:57 PM x_y0urElectrikk Thats the way it is with me and my boyfriend.. onl... Mar 28 2005, 04:38 PM Rachel is love well first off, you have only been dating for four... Mar 28 2005, 04:43 PM
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