-Really- Long Distance Relationship?, what to do? >_< Options

[rivendell]

Ah, this probably sounds super cheesy, but I just don't know what to do. Might as well just explain the situation...

I'm still really close with one of my ex boyfriends. We had gone out for a little under two years before we broke up, and I can honestly say that I was in love with him. He's basically one of my best friends, and he's really the only guy I can tell anything and everything to and not be judged. After our highschool graduation, he went into the Army ( despite my avid protesting ). I haven't gotten that much of a chance to talk him after he left basic training, and got assigned near Panmunjon in South Korea.

But, a couple weeks ago, he called me everyday for a week straight because he said he missed me, and wanted to hear my voice again. ( aww ) The thing is, I realized while talking to him that I still have feelings for him. Is it just because he's on the other side of the world from me and I'd rather he was here where I would know he was safe, or am I really still 'in love' with him?

If love's the case, what can I do other than wait until his tour of duty is up in 2006?

[poisonedxivy]

i wouldn't react to the situation too soon, figure out what your feeling for him before you take any prevelance to the issue between you guys. it'll be much simpler, and his reason for calling you is probably because he still has feelings for you but still sorting it out, or giving YOU time to sort it out. it nice to be able to say that ur were honestly in love with someone, but when you said it, it was past tense ... so you might wanna take a look at ur subconscience writings. go with your intuition ... ask yourself if it would matter if he did the same thing, but lived in the same city? its all about askin urself the right questions. hope i didnt make things even more complicated ... =x