Help me!!!!!!!! i dont no wat 2 do, relationship problems Options

[lilb15]

i am in love w/ my b/f. we've been dating for about 4 months.
but resently, we've been having alot of fights. i love him and i dont want 2 break-up w/ him so i need some advice.
see, wat happens is, that i guess im getting bored in this relationship. its just the same old same old and it gets boring. he never really does nething, all he really does is kiss and hold me. thats good on some ocations but not all the time. so when i want 2 play around and be lustful, he never does anything. its like hes scared r sumthing and i get bored. i want him 2 be more aggressive and playful and not be afriad and i've told him that. he still doesnt do anything tho. im even getting bored w/ kissing him. i told him that, but he says hes not getting bored w/ it. i just cant do the same thing over and over cuz it gets boring, its like going 2 skool. i feel so bad becuz i mad him feel bad and becuz i want more out of this relationship and hes fine the way it is. please help me. tell me wat 2 do!!!!!!!!!! i love him and i dont want the relationship 2 end.

[lilb15]

its me agn of course...............all i can say is problems problems and problems.............thats all my life consist of right now. last nite i almost broke up w/ tj................wow that was a fun nite........but then about a minute r maybe 5 i calmed down breath and then everything was fine.........dont ask how but w/e.......if it happens one more time........then that is deffinaly will be the end of this relationship.......i dont want it to be, but r relationship is becoming unhealthy.........very unhealthy. its hard to admit it, but its true. its better 4 the both of us if we just break-up next time. i love him, its just that........the only time i seem 2 be happy w/ him, is when im acctully with him. it used 2 be that i was happy on the phone with him 2..........but now its not even that. i dont no wats going on. he thinks that the only reason im with him is cause im afraid to break up w/ him. i have no idea wat im going to do...............sum1 plz help me........my friend spent the nite last nite, she hates herself....i have 2 fix that 2...........i always have to fix everything..............so stressful.