my mom gets mad a lot ..., because i'm flat. Options

[ichiban]

I try talking to her about it and telling her that I'm only twelve, but she still always gets all pissed. she goes and blames my dad for not telling me to drink a lot of milk when i was little because that's supposed to make em grow? and yeah she keeps saying i'll never get married becasue i'm all flat .. and .. yeah.

[CandiedChaos]

I've got to say, if you're mom is angry because you're "flat" chested and you are 12 years of age, she's behaving totally incompetent.

An adult, having experienced adolescence, should be sympathetic to the changes your body have and will make!

I'll be 18 in June. I had no boobs when I was 12, going into 7th grade. Hardly an A. Nobody in my family expected me to be big-chested, and i had made the resolution that however small I ended up I'd accept myself. Let's just say that within 2-3yrs I became the utter and total opposite of flat chested --and I'm not saying it brag, i'm saying that i'm so NOT flat chested enough that I have a never-ending back ache (which sux btw, please don't wish it on yourself! ) Obviously, that doesn't happen to every girl. I just wanted to point out that it's entirely possible for you to develop a larger bust further into your adolescence, so your mother shouldn't be ragging on you!

I am also pretty sure that milk has nothing to do with breast growth, it's a matter of genetics.

Many mother's are hard on their daughters, mine is on me too, but for different reasons. It's part of the hell that is adolescence. YAYYYYYYYYYY! ..and some of them don't stop there unfortunately, my mom won't, trust me.

So just remember you are never alone!

<33 Ash