open marriage, for or against? Options

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here is the back story

Will Smith and Wife Have 'Open' Marriage

United Press International
Actor Will Smith says he and his wife have an agreement that they can
have sex with others provided they inform each other first.
Smith, 36, has been married to entertainer Jada Pinkett Smith for seven
years.
"Our perspective is, you don't avoid what's natural," Smith told
Britain's Daily Mail. "You're going to be attracted to people. In our
marriage vows, we didn't say forsaking all others. The vow that we made
was that you will never hear that I did something after the fact."
"If it came down to it, then one can say to the other, 'Look, I need to
have sex with somebody. I'm not going to if you don't approve of it --
but please approve of it.'"
Smith said he was forced to admit he had sexual feelings for other
women when working on his film 'Hitch,' in which he stars with Eva
Mendes, whom he described as freakin' gorgeous.
Despite that attraction, Smith says his second marriage is still solid.


my question is do you support or oppose open marriage??

me personally i dont care if other people do but i think it takes away from the whole point of being married.

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Well, even in the case of a threesome..It's a totally different situation if the person is sleeping with someone they have 'feelings' for...rather than just cause they think the person's attractive or whatever. If it's a one night stand with the third person, be it in a threesome or as a seperate occasion..as long as it's 'only' for that one time, and as long as both agree to it in the first place..then that's okay.

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If it's a one night stand with the third person, be it in a threesome or as a seperate occasion..as long as it's 'only' for that one time, and as long as both agree to it in the first place..then that's okay.

nah...most people in an open marriage sleep with someone outside their marriage more than once. the have lovers that are more than one night stands outside their marriage hence the reason for "open marriage". an open marriage consist more than of one night stands and threesomes hence reason why alot of couples cant handle a marriage like this. you never know if your wife/husband is sleeping with that person to calm his raging hormones or if he has actual feelings, even love, for that person