my life sucks Options

[lilpimpette]

Well, my boyfriend (Anthony) broke up with me to go out with my best friend. I am changing her name to Lee. Well, when I found out Anthony asked Lee out, I immediatly felt heart broken. I gushed to Lee how horrible it was of him to break up with me when I still loved him very much....this was before I knew she liked Anthony. I didn't think that she would go out with Anthony, since Lee was acting like she didn't want him.

Then she told me she liked him. I freaked out on her, but she calmed me down (by telling a lie) when she said she wouldn't ruin our friendship over a guy. I was relieved and felt I could trust her.

I called her the next day and she said "I can't talk, I am waiting for people at the movies!". I was shocked after I hung up. Why didn't she invite me? Her BFF?
Then I called Anthony to say that I was sorry it ended like that, when his dad picked up saying "He is at the movies.".

The next day at school I totally ignored her. I knew she was going out with him, and she broke the promise. Many people came up to me saying he gave her a nice gift, and that they were holding hands...and blah blah blah.

She wrote me a note saying that "Nothing happened at the movies. Please be my friend!"

I forgived her eventually and moved on..but something in my heart still lingered for Anthony. I thought we were BFF's again untill.....

My friend Brittany (Anthony's sister) told me they made out. After she said nothing happened. Yeah right.

[May]

I'm sorry, hon. that sucks the big one.

It's not a nice thing to be going through. I've been through that too. From my experience forgiving is an option but one that took me along time to realize. I was too hurt to even talk to her. [A good 2 years before we ever spoke.]

It's not right that she's lying to you but the fact is you don't know for sure that anything happened. You have to talk to her; not other people or your ex's sister. That won't help. People always get their stories messed up and that just leads to drama.

She's your best friend I'm sure she wouldn't hurt you unless she really felt something for this guy. I'm not saying that her feelings justify her actions but you should take that into consideration.

As generic as this may sound you'll get through this and you will learn who your true friends are when all is said and done but don't take the words of others.

[cewinee]

I'm sorry, hon. that sucks the big one.

It's not a nice thing to be going through. I've been through that too. From my experience forgiving is an option but one that took me along time to realize. I was too hurt to even talk to her. [A good 2 years before we ever spoke.]

It's not right that she's lying to you but the fact is you don't know for sure that anything happened. You have to talk to her; not other people or your ex's sister. That won't help. People always get their stories messed up and that just leads to drama.

She's your best friend I'm sure she wouldn't hurt you unless she really felt something for this guy. I'm not saying that her feelings justify her actions but you should take that into consideration.

As generic as this may sound you'll get through this and you will learn who your true friends are when all is said and done but don't take the words of others.

just wat i was gonna say. listen, if she didnt care about u watsoever she wouldnt bother tellin u wat she did to not upset you (or may be the truth) or written u that note beggin u to be her friend, etc.. she would jus go off with the guy n ditch you. take in to consideration how she may be in a confusing position herself.. she knows how hes hurt u, ur her best friend, she was even honest enough to tell u she liked him which makes it clear that she has feelings for him so u know that for sure right? then she has feelings for the guy that hurt you.. im sure he invited her to the movies n she was too embarrassed or too tempted to say no n went.. n maybe "nothing happened" maybe something did.. ull only know if you ask her urself n not listen to rumours u hear for now.. n when u do know if sth happpned then thats when u can make u choice whether u should still talk or not..

but again i'm not saying that her feelings justify her actions either but you should take most of wat i said into consideration n think bout it okie? =) n to get the truth out of her, tell her "pls.. jus tell me the truth, ull make our friendship worse if u lie to me, jus pls tell me the truth", make her feel guilty enough to tell u the truth. n if sth DID happen, they made out or watever.. dont get mad at her for lying, u can get mad at her for going with it after her knowing wat hes put u through so fast.. but wat really matters is now, how she feels bout him, if she enjoyed wat happened, does she feel guilty.. jus ask her after afterwards, how do you feel bout wat happened?

im so sorry he left u whilst u still loved him n immediately went for another girl =/ i really am.. but hey i promise u he's not gona be the last guy ull ever love =) theres always others! u got the rest of ur life to find that other guy ^_^ anthony isnt the one for ya, hes a loser -_- gluck ok!! sorry if my advice sucked D;

[Chii]

just wat i was gonna say. listen, if she didnt care about u watsoever she wouldnt bother tellin u wat she did to not upset you (or may be the truth) or written u that note beggin u to be her friend, etc.. she would jus go off with the guy n ditch you.

friends aren't supposed to lie to each other, you're supposed to stay truthful on these types of things...and she did kind of ditch her by going to the movies with him and saying she's going with people...and didn't invite her

this girl lied to you for a man more than once. she told you she didn't like him and nothing happened when she did like him and something did happen. if she was a real friend, she could've waited until you got over him or talked to you about it instead of jumping in for the kiss so quckly. come on, what the hell is this? girl friends are supposed to stick together

at least you know what kind of person she is now