my life sucks Options

[lilpimpette]

Well, my boyfriend (Anthony) broke up with me to go out with my best friend. I am changing her name to Lee. Well, when I found out Anthony asked Lee out, I immediatly felt heart broken. I gushed to Lee how horrible it was of him to break up with me when I still loved him very much....this was before I knew she liked Anthony. I didn't think that she would go out with Anthony, since Lee was acting like she didn't want him.

Then she told me she liked him. I freaked out on her, but she calmed me down (by telling a lie) when she said she wouldn't ruin our friendship over a guy. I was relieved and felt I could trust her.

I called her the next day and she said "I can't talk, I am waiting for people at the movies!". I was shocked after I hung up. Why didn't she invite me? Her BFF?
Then I called Anthony to say that I was sorry it ended like that, when his dad picked up saying "He is at the movies.".

The next day at school I totally ignored her. I knew she was going out with him, and she broke the promise. Many people came up to me saying he gave her a nice gift, and that they were holding hands...and blah blah blah.

She wrote me a note saying that "Nothing happened at the movies. Please be my friend!"

I forgived her eventually and moved on..but something in my heart still lingered for Anthony. I thought we were BFF's again untill.....

My friend Brittany (Anthony's sister) told me they made out. After she said nothing happened. Yeah right.

[May]

I'm sorry, hon. that sucks the big one.

It's not a nice thing to be going through. I've been through that too. From my experience forgiving is an option but one that took me along time to realize. I was too hurt to even talk to her. [A good 2 years before we ever spoke.]

It's not right that she's lying to you but the fact is you don't know for sure that anything happened. You have to talk to her; not other people or your ex's sister. That won't help. People always get their stories messed up and that just leads to drama.

She's your best friend I'm sure she wouldn't hurt you unless she really felt something for this guy. I'm not saying that her feelings justify her actions but you should take that into consideration.

As generic as this may sound you'll get through this and you will learn who your true friends are when all is said and done but don't take the words of others.

[lilshelil]

I'm sorry, hon. that sucks the big one.

It's not a nice thing to be going through. I've been through that too. From my experience forgiving is an option but one that took me along time to realize. I was too hurt to even talk to her. [A good 2 years before we ever spoke.]

It's not right that she's lying to you but the fact is you don't know for sure that anything happened. You have to talk to her; not other people or your ex's sister. That won't help. People always get their stories messed up and that just leads to drama.

She's your best friend I'm sure she wouldn't hurt you unless she really felt something for this guy. I'm not saying that her feelings justify her actions but you should take that into consideration.

As generic as this may sound you'll get through this and you will learn who your true friends are when all is said and done but don't take the words of others.

That was a messed up friend?!?! and im not even saying best friend. If she had ever even considered u as her friend she would have considered ur feelings. She never was ur best friend in the first place so dont even give a damn about it. Besides, if she didnt take ur feeling into consideration why take hers? (that she likes this guy so much to go out w. him and not care bout u)

What u gotta do now is walk out of this with ur head held high. And show that u can out it down show that u are stong and nothing can stand it your way. Then everyone will say "hey, look at that player she used her to get to her best friend" or other ppl wont even b that grls friends they'll jus say "what a slut shes going out w. her best friends ex" or "shes a back stabber lets walk the long way class" lol

i noe its hard No matter how sweet they are to each other u gotta let it go even if they get married u still gotta let it go so why are u going to think about b*tches and as*es like that? ur stong so move on! its not like they will rele get married i mean they might have a .005% in that. It hurts u gotta get over it. Jus think how many parents get divorced everyday w. years of affection and tons of kids and ur even better! no strings attatched!

Walk out w. ur head held high. u dont need them.

[May]

That was a messed up friend?!?! and im not even saying best friend. If she had ever even considered u as her friend she would have considered ur feelings. She never was ur best friend in the first place so dont even give a damn about it. Besides, if she didnt take ur feeling into consideration why take hers? (that she likes this guy so much to go out w. him and not care bout u)

What u gotta do now is walk out of this with ur head held high. And show that u can out it down show that u are stong and nothing can stand it your way. Then everyone will say "hey, look at that player she used her to get to her best friend" or other ppl wont even b that grls friends they'll jus say "what a slut shes going out w. her best friends ex" or "shes a back stabber lets walk the long way class" lol

i noe its hard No matter how sweet they are to each other u gotta let it go even if they get married u still gotta let it go so why are u going to think about b*tches and as*es like that? ur stong so move on! its not like they will rele get married i mean they might have a .005% in that. It hurts u gotta get over it. Jus think how many parents get divorced everyday w. years of affection and tons of kids and ur even better! no strings attatched!

Walk out w. ur head held high. u dont need them.

I prefer to think of it as being the bigger person. Everyone makes mistakes. If you hold onto every wrong choice a person makes you'll be left with no one.

Of course I was hurt and forgiving took me time and growth to even consider.

She doesn't even know if the rumors are true. If they are then that's a totally different story.