my life sucks Options

[lilpimpette]

Well, my boyfriend (Anthony) broke up with me to go out with my best friend. I am changing her name to Lee. Well, when I found out Anthony asked Lee out, I immediatly felt heart broken. I gushed to Lee how horrible it was of him to break up with me when I still loved him very much....this was before I knew she liked Anthony. I didn't think that she would go out with Anthony, since Lee was acting like she didn't want him.

Then she told me she liked him. I freaked out on her, but she calmed me down (by telling a lie) when she said she wouldn't ruin our friendship over a guy. I was relieved and felt I could trust her.

I called her the next day and she said "I can't talk, I am waiting for people at the movies!". I was shocked after I hung up. Why didn't she invite me? Her BFF?
Then I called Anthony to say that I was sorry it ended like that, when his dad picked up saying "He is at the movies.".

The next day at school I totally ignored her. I knew she was going out with him, and she broke the promise. Many people came up to me saying he gave her a nice gift, and that they were holding hands...and blah blah blah.

She wrote me a note saying that "Nothing happened at the movies. Please be my friend!"

I forgived her eventually and moved on..but something in my heart still lingered for Anthony. I thought we were BFF's again untill.....

My friend Brittany (Anthony's sister) told me they made out. After she said nothing happened. Yeah right.

[May]

I'm sorry, hon. that sucks the big one.

It's not a nice thing to be going through. I've been through that too. From my experience forgiving is an option but one that took me along time to realize. I was too hurt to even talk to her. [A good 2 years before we ever spoke.]

It's not right that she's lying to you but the fact is you don't know for sure that anything happened. You have to talk to her; not other people or your ex's sister. That won't help. People always get their stories messed up and that just leads to drama.

She's your best friend I'm sure she wouldn't hurt you unless she really felt something for this guy. I'm not saying that her feelings justify her actions but you should take that into consideration.

As generic as this may sound you'll get through this and you will learn who your true friends are when all is said and done but don't take the words of others.