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 Mar 25 2005, 02:54 PM
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here is the back story
Will Smith and Wife Have 'Open' Marriage United Press International Actor Will Smith says he and his wife have an agreement that they can have sex with others provided they inform each other first. Smith, 36, has been married to entertainer Jada Pinkett Smith for seven years. "Our perspective is, you don't avoid what's natural," Smith told Britain's Daily Mail. "You're going to be attracted to people. In our marriage vows, we didn't say forsaking all others. The vow that we made was that you will never hear that I did something after the fact." "If it came down to it, then one can say to the other, 'Look, I need to have sex with somebody. I'm not going to if you don't approve of it -- but please approve of it.'" Smith said he was forced to admit he had sexual feelings for other women when working on his film 'Hitch,' in which he stars with Eva Mendes, whom he described as freakin' gorgeous. Despite that attraction, Smith says his second marriage is still solid. my question is do you support or oppose open marriage?? me personally i dont care if other people do but i think it takes away from the whole point of being married. |
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Mar 25 2005, 04:05 PM
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QUOTE(mzkandi @ Mar 25 2005, 2:54 PM) here is the back story Will Smith and Wife Have 'Open' Marriage United Press International Actor Will Smith says he and his wife have an agreement that they can have sex with others provided they inform each other first. Smith, 36, has been married to entertainer Jada Pinkett Smith for seven years. "Our perspective is, you don't avoid what's natural," Smith told Britain's Daily Mail. "You're going to be attracted to people. In our marriage vows, we didn't say forsaking all others. The vow that we made was that you will never hear that I did something after the fact." "If it came down to it, then one can say to the other, 'Look, I need to have sex with somebody. I'm not going to if you don't approve of it -- but please approve of it.'" Smith said he was forced to admit he had sexual feelings for other women when working on his film 'Hitch,' in which he stars with Eva Mendes, whom he described as freakin' gorgeous. Despite that attraction, Smith says his second marriage is still solid. my question is do you support or oppose open marriage?? me personally i dont care if other people do but i think it takes away from the whole point of being married.  i couldnt agree with you more. if i was married, i would NEVER want my husband to have sex with other women, if he wanted to do that, why get married in the first place? marriage is between two people, not 10, 20, etc |
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Mar 25 2005, 04:08 PM
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QUOTE(ohh_so_elektrikk<3 @ Mar 25 2005, 3:05 PM) i couldnt agree with you more. if i was married, i would NEVER want my husband to have sex with other women, if he wanted to do that, why get married in the first place? marriage is between two people, not 10, 20, etc I'm not the jealous type, but I'm sure I'd be a bit on the jealous side if I cook my wife dinner, we sit down at the table, discuss our day and she tells me, "Oh, remember that one guy who stole your job? (YEA) I had sex with him." |
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Mar 25 2005, 04:10 PM
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QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Mar 25 2005, 4:08 PM) I'm not the jealous type, but I'm sure I'd be a bit on the jealous side if I cook my wife dinner, we sit down at the table, discuss our day and she tells me, "Oh, remember that one guy who stole your job? (YEA) I had sex with him." lol, so true. i would be jealous too if my husband told me he was sleeping with other women. can you say "jerry springer"? 
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Mar 25 2005, 04:22 PM
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QUOTE(ohh_so_elektrikk<3 @ Mar 25 2005, 3:10 PM) lol, so true. i would be jealous too if my husband told me he was sleeping with other women. can you say "jerry springer"? I can see the headlines now RESPECTED SAN ANTONIO MAN KILLS WIFE IN BLIND RAGE. |
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Mar 25 2005, 04:26 PM
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QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Mar 25 2005, 4:22 PM) I can see the headlines now RESPECTED SAN ANTONIO MAN KILLS WIFE IN BLIND RAGE. lol.....but you know what i find is interesting about this subject that it is fairly common among married couples according to my research. i have a friend who is married and her and her hubby have threesomes are the time. i find the that rather disturbing seeing that they are married but they have a very close knit relationship...also whenever i am in a chat room (mostly yahoo's chat rooms) i see things all the time with couples trying to find a person online to have sex with them.......... |
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Posts in this topic
mzkandi open marriage Mar 25 2005, 02:54 PM
kisstharingz I'm not against it but I don't understand ... Mar 25 2005, 02:57 PM pandamonium where did you get this about will smith?
i dont s... Mar 25 2005, 03:00 PM mzkandi ^^^^^^
http://www.realitytvworld.com/index/articl.... Mar 25 2005, 03:03 PM Angel_Cece well thats a sin.
i dunno what commandment it is ... Mar 25 2005, 03:04 PM
pandamonium QUOTE(Angel_Cece @ Mar 25 2005, 3:04 PM)well ... Mar 25 2005, 03:05 PM kisstharingz QUOTE(pandamonium @ Mar 25 2005, 3:05 PM)but ... Mar 25 2005, 03:09 PM BrandonSaunders I'm not really into idolizing celebrities beca... Mar 25 2005, 03:19 PM BrandonSaunders QUOTE(mzkandi @ Mar 25 2005, 3:26 PM)lol........ Mar 25 2005, 04:31 PM ohh_so_elektrikk<3 well havent you heard of those parties where peopl... Mar 25 2005, 04:33 PM Crimson_Sky Heya All,
Hm, well..I guess I'll be the first... Mar 25 2005, 06:52 PM pandamonium QUOTE(Crimson_Sky @ Mar 25 2005, 6:52 PM)Heya... Mar 25 2005, 06:58 PM monde libre morally, it's just sick. what if she or one of... Mar 26 2005, 03:23 PM Crimson_Sky o.o' Well, I'll try not to take that perso... Mar 26 2005, 03:29 PM monde libre QUOTE(Crimson_Sky @ Mar 26 2005, 3:29 PM)o.o... Mar 26 2005, 03:54 PM Crimson_Sky QUOTE(perplexism @ Mar 26 2005, 4:54 PM)um, a... Mar 26 2005, 04:19 PM mzkandi QUOTE(Crimson_Sky @ Mar 26 2005, 4:19 PM)but ... Mar 26 2005, 04:23 PM mzkandi QUOTE(Crimson_Sky @ Mar 26 2005, 3:29 PM)It... Mar 26 2005, 04:00 PM xd0rkette QUOTE(mzkandi @ Mar 26 2005, 4:00 PM)you seem... Mar 27 2005, 10:28 PM nevernothere If you wanna have sex with other people... then yo... Mar 26 2005, 03:33 PM Crimson_Sky But how does that work if you love eachother and w... Mar 26 2005, 03:43 PM Rachel is love while i don't think i would ever want an open ... Mar 26 2005, 03:49 PM Crimson_Sky Well, even in the case of a threesome..It's a ... Mar 26 2005, 04:54 PM mzkandi QUOTE(Crimson_Sky @ Mar 26 2005, 4:54 PM)If i... Mar 26 2005, 04:59 PM Crimson_Sky See, I dont support 'that'. I support the ... Mar 27 2005, 12:19 AM BrandonSaunders I believe that if you're that interested in an... Mar 27 2005, 09:03 AM sammi rules you well, i wouldn't even ever risk it if i was ma... Mar 27 2005, 09:19 AM yanners i'm not sure if i'm for or against it. bu... Mar 27 2005, 09:41 AM aznxdreamer hmm..that sounds pretty cool. i wanna do that with... Mar 27 2005, 10:18 PM lost [child] no. period. Mar 27 2005, 10:42 PM madchenallein I'm new here, but I can first recommend to any... May 16 2005, 06:15 AM XoJennaoX If a couple agrees to this open marriage then what... May 16 2005, 10:02 AM toodlepops. I do not support it. Why the hell did they get mar... May 17 2005, 09:17 AM antix10_kos I have been in an open relationship for about 6 mo... May 17 2005, 10:35 AM |
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