how do you know if your bisexual?! Options

[HoodieObsessed]

how do you knwo if your bisexual?! I'm 14 and I'm still virgin but I'm jsut wondering I mean...I've never liked a girl or boy in that way really...but I do find my best freind hot (she's a girl) and I'ms tarting to scar myself...am I jstu overreacting?! I cn't be sure, I really do find her hot, and if she was a guy, I'd have a big crush on her, bu tI mean I cna't cause sh'es a girl...it this jsut messed? it'd really bothering me and my imagination is running away...I mean, I find guys hot an all, but i find girls jsut as hot sometimes..maybe I'l get over it? maybe bisexuals are jsut that way caus ehtye wanna be? or are you born that way? ahhhh, I'm so confused

[d3s0lat3_Fa1th3]

I know this topic is hella old, but I HAVE to say something.

EVERY LIVING HUMAN HAS THE POTENTIAL FOR BISEXUALITY.

I've heard it best described as, "Women are entirely sexy and men just are in some places." This is so completely true. The female physique is divine. People respond to touch, like my incredibly hetero friend Adam says, "My body likes it when he touches my nipple, my mind just doesn't."

Most of this REALLY just has to do with your environment, what you've been told is acceptable. I'd lost my respect for many bisexuals because it is something of a fad, or a way to gain more relationships of the opposite gender. (case in point, the dipshit who said that bi chicks are hot.)

Then I realized that I was what many would deem to be bisexual, nearly lesbian.

It's not a matter of thinking that someone is attractive, it's feeling it, it's needing it, it's knowing within whatever bit of a soul you have that you could genuinely love someone of your same gender.

Love in it of itself is beautiful, don't discredit that.

But don't be a f**king whore either.