I HAVE A PROBLEM! PLZ HELP! |
I HAVE A PROBLEM! PLZ HELP! |
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![]() Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,548 ![]() |
[FONT=Arial] um... could anyone help me? i have this BIG problem .... here: i REALLY LIKE this guy but i dont think he likes me back because i KEEP hearing RUMORS that HE likes someone else... hes like the NICEST GUY that IVE EVER MET ... and hes LIKE SO ATHLETIC, POPULAR, SWEET, AND HIS INTELLIGENCE IS KINDA GOOD .... its just that my PROBLEM IS is that im smart and everyone calls me a NERD .... i just hate it when they call me that ... i dont know why ... its just that its insulting to call a SMART person that... and so... " NERD " PPLZ are ALWAYS CONSIDERED " UNPOPULAR " .... AND I HATE BEING UNPOPULAR .... NOT A LOT OF PPLZ TALK TO ME OR MY OTHER FRIENDS WHOM PPL CONSIDER " NERDS " ALSO ... well all they ask of us is ABOUT HW OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT ... and whenever someone tells a joke ... i ALWAYS LAUGH ... LOL ... I <3 JOKES! ... its just that I DONT HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR .... *sighs* i wished i would ... and im not ATHLETIC EITHER ... I GUESS HAVING A SENSE OF HUMOR OR BEING ATHLETIC would make you COOL ... i dont know ... but i want to be considered COOL .... uh ... yeah.... and so... i dont really know how to talk to this GUY I LIKE [ well... i talked to him several times cause of work or something ] ... like what if I EMBARRASS MYSELF IN FRONT OF HIM? ... i dont know ... I NEVER HAVE THE COURAGE TO SAY THAT I LIKE HIM ... and I THINK THAT I SAW HIM STARE OR LOOK AT ME FOR A FEW SECONDS ... but maybe he was STARING AT SOMETHING ElSE ... ok... i have nothing else to say ... PLZ HELP ME THOUGH!
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First, you must ask.. if we wasn't so popular or athletic, would I like him just as much? And you may be nervous around him, but if he likes you for you then if you act silly in front of him, he won't dislike you b/c of it, or even because of the fact that you're a so called "nerd". That just shows you're intellegent. Don't be afraid! Just strike up a conversation with him. He can't honestly like you until he hangs around with you and gets to know you.
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