time doesnt heal, im still not over him Options

[nlgrl]

so its been a little over 2 months since me n my ex broke up, and about a month since he decided to stop talking to me altogether. trust me i WANT to get over him and ive TRIED to get over him... but its still no use. ive tried doing things to get my mind off him but... no use. it seems like when time passes by it gets wrose every day and n ot helping at all... and time passes by sooo slowly that... i get the recconize all the feelings that im haveing... im not putting myself down... you think i WANT to feel this way? i dont but... i dont know... nowadays i find myself just moping around and such
hows he doing?
not better than me... from what i can see, he's depressed. how do i kno? cause the last time he took drugs was when he was depressed (long before we met) and hes taking drugs now and im worried about him... id help him but... i dont know exactly if I AM apart of the problem. he's even dreaming about suicide... i really dont know if he's like this cause of me or whatever
im my opinion i really think we should get back together cause its obvious our lives are miserable witout each other... and i keep thinking he broke up with me for the same reason... he wants me to be happy with someone elce.... cause we're not TOTAL oppisites but... not exactly alike on the social scale... he told me to find someone better than him cause he thinks HE isnt good enough... i have a strong feeling he want to be with me but he's forcing himself to stay away... (i dont have a bad past so i dont kno y...) he even said on his xanga "but it still seems like im lieing to myself while putting on a show for everyone elce"

i COULD talk to him... but i dont kno if he'd want to cause he told me to leave him alone... im scared to... ive never felt so low about myself

[lilshelil]

First of all the drugs is his bussiness not urs if he wanna hurt himself and his body why do u care?

okay, fine u care bout him and you love him but if he really misses u that much and hes madd depressed bout it then he should be man enough and try to get back w. you right?

okay he jus want you to be happy w. someone else. but its jus an excuse. cuz in a guys mind, guys dont like to share anything expecially when it comes to girls. so "u can be happy w. someone else" is jus telling u, i dont like u - go look for someone else cuz i dont care if i c u w. another guy

THINK bout it if he really wants u to be happy he would stay w. u so he can guarantee ur happiness making sure no one will hurt u AT ALL.

Besides he should know that you are happy with him. so instead of him "giving u away" if he really likes u he should try to make the relationship work

I think you should jus let him go. about the suicide thing, ahaha u can only imagine how many lies a guy tell aday. unless hes going to cut himself or jump off a building right infront of ur eyes. dont believe it. if u think this relationship is worth it go ahead. cuz love is a battle field not "lets play who can be more benevolent"

Sorry if u think this post was long. =P

[nlgrl]

okay he jus want you to be happy w. someone else. but its jus an excuse. cuz in a guys mind, guys dont like to share anything expecially when it comes to girls. so "u can be happy w. someone else" is jus telling u, i dont like u - go look for someone else cuz i dont care if i c u w. another guy

THINK bout it if he really wants u to be happy he would stay w. u so he can guarantee ur happiness making sure no one will hurt u AT ALL.
 
Besides he should know that you are happy with him. so instead of him "giving u away" if he really likes u he should try to make the relationship work

actually, what cHuNsAbAbIe012 is true... he thought he couldnt make me happy... he used the same excuse the first time he broke up with me, and he came back when i thought he wouldnt