my friend.., wants to die. Options

[bad_girl]

let's see, i have this friend. she used to be mean to me and stuff in gr5 but i guess we're ok now. i hang out with her sometimes to play footie. anyway, she's been really down lately, her family fking pissed at her.. n teasing going on at school. i didnt realize that at first.. until she told me. she told me that she was tired of this and that she's really, really sad.. i pointed out that she seems to be always laughing and stuff, but she said that she just didnt want to show it. anyway, right now.. her msn name is: "I WILL COMMIT SUCIDE SOON. I SWEAR. I HATE EVERY1 H8 MA LIFE. EVRY1'S SO BITCHY. NOT GONNA LIVE NEMORE." and her auto-message is: "AutoMessage: i'm in the toilet, with a knife in one hand. wut will i do? take a guess." omg.. im afraid she'll really go kill herself. her sister just called her a porkchop and insulted her in her xanga.. a lot. it's sad.. hearing it from ur own sister that u're a porkchop. i tried to tell her all the good things about her and how she couldn't die because she'd miss my bday and all.. and she was all ,"sorry. i'll have to miss ur bday. im sorry. but i'll remember u, forever." and im like "noooooooooooooooooooooo!". i really dont want her to die over something stupid like this.. and that knife in her hand ... ugh.

i dont want her to end her life.. what should i say that wouldn't offend her and would help her want to live instead??? ...im so confused.. n scared. she just told me that she made a bloody mess.. let's hope it's not what im thinking.

[topsyturvy]

Well it sorta sounds like she's doing it for attention.....because any person that a relly, truly going to commit suicide, probably wouldnt tell anyone about it.

It seems like a big cry for attention. I mean, if I was going to commit suicide, I sure as hell wouldn't tell anyone.

ATTENTION WHORE!! OMFG.. who the heck tells a friend they made a "bloody mess"?? You can totally tell she's doing it for attention. If she really wanted to do it, she should have done it by now. Correct? Instead of going "LyKe OmGsh!! I lYke ToTaLlY kaNt StaNd LiVing RigHt Now SO LyKe im GunnA go Kill My SeLf!!" or saying things like "Im iN tHe BatHRooM wiTh a KNife.. ect ect."   

Everybody has one of those stages where they arnt going through the greatest of times... but it will pass... There are so many people out in the world that have gone through worser than her... I know some people that ACCUALLY have been through way worser situations than her.

If it's really something she wants to do, than it's her choice.

uh yeah, i dont think she's gonna do it. anyone who's really into it and seriously meant it would not talk about it so easily like that. and they would not flaunt that around. so.. tell her that you will never forgive her if she ever did something like that and you will just cease to even think about her because basically, she's leaving you and ditching you and by saying that no one loves her, she's saying you dont count as a person. so tell her that you want her to stay alive and if she ever did that, you would hate her forever.
hey, tough love works.

Since this was a month ago, she probably died already if she DID actually suicide... which i doubt

Agree with all of the above.. especially aznhunnie6o1.

btw what's a porkchop supposed to be? 

It's a saying we use in HK.. describes someone who's either fat, stupid, dumb-looking, or lame.. or all.