my friend.., wants to die. Options

[bad_girl]

let's see, i have this friend. she used to be mean to me and stuff in gr5 but i guess we're ok now. i hang out with her sometimes to play footie. anyway, she's been really down lately, her family fking pissed at her.. n teasing going on at school. i didnt realize that at first.. until she told me. she told me that she was tired of this and that she's really, really sad.. i pointed out that she seems to be always laughing and stuff, but she said that she just didnt want to show it. anyway, right now.. her msn name is: "I WILL COMMIT SUCIDE SOON. I SWEAR. I HATE EVERY1 H8 MA LIFE. EVRY1'S SO BITCHY. NOT GONNA LIVE NEMORE." and her auto-message is: "AutoMessage: i'm in the toilet, with a knife in one hand. wut will i do? take a guess." omg.. im afraid she'll really go kill herself. her sister just called her a porkchop and insulted her in her xanga.. a lot. it's sad.. hearing it from ur own sister that u're a porkchop. i tried to tell her all the good things about her and how she couldn't die because she'd miss my bday and all.. and she was all ,"sorry. i'll have to miss ur bday. im sorry. but i'll remember u, forever." and im like "noooooooooooooooooooooo!". i really dont want her to die over something stupid like this.. and that knife in her hand ... ugh.

i dont want her to end her life.. what should i say that wouldn't offend her and would help her want to live instead??? ...im so confused.. n scared. she just told me that she made a bloody mess.. let's hope it's not what im thinking.

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

u need to tell her that first of all she has all these pple in her life who really care for her n she cant do that to herself cuz if she does then it will effect all of them. one person's death effect alot of pple. she's selfish to even think that. selfish cuz hurting urself means that u dont think highly of urself. she needs a boost of self confidence n also because there will b people who love her n care for her.

rite now it may seem like her life is a living hell n that's understandable becuase i do to. life is a bitch. thats a fact. its full of ups n downs but it always seems like its always full of downs but things always get better. she has her whole life ahead of her n she's willing to kill herself over something so small as that "family problems"? or watever it is.

n u need to talk to her about watever it is she is having problems with. she needs someone to talk to n needs someone to help her out. be that person.