Major relationship problems, my friends are starting to hate me =( |
Major relationship problems, my friends are starting to hate me =( |
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I am so damn depressed...and it's cause of all the shyt I've got from my so called friends. I mean, not ALL of them are entirely pissed at me but a couple of them are constantly treating me so shitty e.g. smart remarks and snapping back at me whenever I even try to TALK to them. I tried so hard being nice and considerate about every one of them but they just don't get it. First it was only a couple of them who started 'hating' me and treating me like I don't exist or I'm some kind of punching bag...now it's getting worse and worse....oh god I wish I'm not a girl..I wish I'm a guy and they'll hit me and afterwards they'll be like a'ight you're my mate again.
They are making my life HELL. I tried to think of whatever thing I did wrong but I seriously don't think I have. They are making me feel so pathetic. I can't stand all those whispering and pretending of them. I don't wanna live anymore =( how can things go so wrong in such a short time.... edit: I really need to sort all of this out. We were such good friends before they started hating me I really want to do something before it gets outta control. |
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There are several things you could do. One, find new friends. Two, speak with these friends about how you feel, if they don't listen then refer back to number One. Three, you can go around bitching and complaining about this. This will lead to no where so you'll need to get over it. Because it sounds like to me, you are still quite young, and not in highschool. Once you get into highschool you'll see all of your friends/friendships change and you will have to get over that too. It's something that comes with life: Change. Also, maybe your friends don't feel like you are being nice to them or maybe they can sense that you are fed up with them so they act that way. Seriously, just talk to them or get new friends. It's not anything to be depressed over because honey, I have been depressed and you don't get depressed over people who act stupid. Oh and you say they have hated you and that you've tried to figure out why so why not ask them? Or why not just try harder? Maybe it's something really obscure so it will take longer to find out.
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