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bf .. and my friend dilemma, i dun wana choose ><
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post Mar 17 2005, 06:18 AM
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well.. i dint really want a bf. it always seemed 2 me that only the pretty looking gurls get bf. all i cood do was dream. but now.. the guy i liked, likes me. i wasnt planning 2 haf a bf till ages. we talked a lot. now we hang around a lot. everyones been pressuring us, teasing us.. 2 go out. so now here we r.
today i was walking 2 the station wif him. most of my friends jus tease me and smile and give me the wink look. one friend was walking behind me at the time, i turned around and sed hi. wat was i spose 2 do? i duno. i kept on walking wif him.
then when we were alone, she sed i was ignoring her. on my xanga, i wrote that i wasnt trying to ingore her. she commented saying "congratulations. u suceeded". so nows she's obviously pissed at me.
well wat was i spose 2 do? stop talking 2 him and talk 2 her? .. now i haf 2 choose do i -_- now my other friend is making me feel guilty. that i was choosing my bf over a friend. what did i do rong? dus having a bf mean i haf 2 choose?
 
 
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KissMe2408
post Mar 17 2005, 04:31 PM
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Having a boyfriend doesn't mean that you have to choose between him and your best friend. It sounds to me like your best friend is jealous and feels kinda lonely that you have a boyfriend now, and your attention is focused primarily on him. But i mean i think she is being unfair about what she said, just tell her straight up what you're feeling. She needs to respect your feelings and decisions if she is indeed your best friend. But seriously, talk to both of them straight up and tell them your feelings, the worst thing to do is hold all this inside, i wish you the best :)
 

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