Do you compete?, when your crush starts liking someone |
 Mar 9 2005, 03:45 PM
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When your crush starts liking someone else other then you what do you do? do you compete with that other person?Or do you just let the other person win right away? Please tell me what you think you would do or what you do because...err...im kinda in a situation exactly like this...
 i bet you guys didnt understand a word i just said...and oh yeah. sorry my post is so long  here is my story that might help you answer this question: this guy who iv been crushing on for a while liked me also for a while. but then there was this new girl that came and he started liking her other then me. i knew this because he was flirting with her and he was also spening alot of time with her. after he got to know her more it seemed as if he did not like me as much as he used to at first...do you think he still likes me? do you think i should stop liking him? do you think that i should compete with the other girl so that the guy will like me more? sorry for asking so many questions...im just really confused right now  [EDIT] i forgot to say that when i was around/near him he was kinda nervous. i dont think he was nervous of me that he had a crush on me or he was nevous about that other girl that he liked. i think it was because he was nevous that he knew that i was starting to know that he liked the other girl instead of me. he also knew that i had a crush on him.... |
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Mar 16 2005, 01:47 AM
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 Syaoran...kawaii... Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,627 |
I'm the kind who would just back off and then brood continuously over it...until i forget or until it becomes a fading memory...that's what i would do...but everyone is different...if you feel that you really can't cope with it, then talk it out with him...you don't want this period of awkwardness to drag out...if he says really likes the other girl then wish him all the best and start thinking of him as a friend...if he says he likes you then just kiss him...hehe
But whatever you do, just make sure that you will have no regrets, because 'What ifs' can sting you worse than a box jellyfish can...just think about it carefully...follow your heart (I know it's cliche...but cliches are appropriate too you know!) All the best! |
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gponce10104 Do you compete? Mar 9 2005, 03:45 PM
_sarcastic_ sometimes i do. once i let my bestfriend win caus... Mar 9 2005, 04:14 PM
gponce10104 QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Mar 9 2005, 4:14 PM)somet... Mar 9 2005, 06:34 PM X-Zeifer well kind of i just hang around her and ask her if... Mar 9 2005, 04:48 PM swe3ttemptasian you gotta do what you gotta do Mar 9 2005, 05:03 PM Nicolatofu well, sometimes, if I think I have a chance with h... Mar 9 2005, 05:05 PM eboarder2020 Oh man i compete... Pain is love right, and so som... Mar 9 2005, 05:18 PM YoGrandpaIsFine hell yeah i would. nobody gonna take my hubby. Mar 9 2005, 06:35 PM FireArrow Probably... Mar 9 2005, 06:56 PM --x who0ps nopes (:
if he likes someone eles, then i jst back... Mar 9 2005, 10:51 PM wind&fire if he like some one else i give up.. if he doesnt ... Mar 9 2005, 11:24 PM HoodieObsessed QUOTE(wind&fire @ Mar 9 2005, 8:24 PM)if ... Apr 19 2005, 04:06 PM xd0rkette hm. if my crush liked someone else.. i guess i wou... Mar 9 2005, 11:27 PM gponce10104 QUOTE(xd0rkette @ Mar 9 2005, 11:27 PM)hm. if... Mar 10 2005, 07:51 AM dahding all's fair in love and war.
remember. ur figh... Mar 10 2005, 07:14 AM yanners no i dont because i believe in the whole "oh ... Mar 10 2005, 09:09 AM EmmalieV Of course , i compete ...a girls nature. Mar 10 2005, 12:30 PM Shortiiex i never compete...it probably was never meant to b... Mar 10 2005, 03:01 PM gponce10104 QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Mar 10 2005, 3:01 PM)i neve... Mar 10 2005, 03:07 PM purestkiss101 hell yea compete..if you cant get what you want at... Mar 10 2005, 06:28 PM dani41790 nah i dont compete. if i had a crush who liked ano... Mar 11 2005, 03:04 AM mistaken_identity I'm kinda in the same situation as you are, an... Mar 11 2005, 03:35 AM gponce10104 QUOTE(mistaken_identity @ Mar 11 2005, 3:35 A... Mar 11 2005, 06:47 PM gossipgirl erm...
i probably will
fight for the boy i like
lo... Mar 11 2005, 04:39 AM (>")> well..think about the other person's happiness... Mar 11 2005, 11:59 AM suddenly she it's all about what's better for that pers... Mar 11 2005, 02:47 PM laur3nw No, I let them like whoever they want. I won... Mar 11 2005, 09:44 PM gponce10104 QUOTE(laur3nw @ Mar 11 2005, 9:44 PM)No, I le... Mar 12 2005, 10:54 AM sheddingtears nope. i have never competed, but if the guy's ... Mar 12 2005, 01:02 AM cHuNsAbAbIe012 i do..only it was my boyfriend not...some crush. Mar 12 2005, 02:03 PM audory yeah. if this girl likes the guy i like [as long a... Mar 12 2005, 09:34 PM pinayprincess of course Mar 12 2005, 10:11 PM DrEaMgUy2K1 Sure. Challenges gives me more motivation. But if ... Mar 12 2005, 11:30 PM Teesa QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Mar 12 2005, 11:30 PM)Sur... Mar 17 2005, 12:07 AM Shattered_Hope Sometimes...depends on the person I'm supposed... Mar 13 2005, 12:15 AM toyo loco sometimes but yea it really depends on teh person ... Mar 13 2005, 12:50 AM gponce10104 hmmmmm.....*thinks to self* is my guy really worth... Mar 13 2005, 09:57 AM CUTEBUNNY160 sometimes...i start to hang out with him more Mar 13 2005, 02:16 PM gponce10104 omg!!!for some reason he doesnt like t... Mar 15 2005, 09:49 PM sparklebabygirl if he didnt like me i wouldnt try to change or an... Mar 16 2005, 11:06 PM xBBYFRE5H ask him yourself if he lykes the new girl or if he... Mar 17 2005, 12:04 AM M1SSxCHR1SSY Yes I do. Because I like the person and I become s... Mar 17 2005, 12:54 AM whatiismae DUH you compete!! you dont just give up li... Mar 17 2005, 10:50 PM angel_revelation i dont compete, because it would just make the rel... Mar 20 2005, 11:27 PM kryzcoak47luv666 I just let it go if he likes someone else, but if ... Apr 18 2005, 04:35 AM xMayleex Random people just come up to me trying to start a... Apr 19 2005, 01:12 PM miss barnes i dont compete but, i dont like it. he's gonna... Apr 19 2005, 04:17 PM |
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