boyfriend's cousin, in love with me :-/ |
boyfriend's cousin, in love with me :-/ |
Mar 14 2005, 02:42 PM
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![]() <3 Deanna Leigh Irene <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,326 |
I think my boyfriend's cousin is in love with me :-/ and I really don't know what to do because I don't want to hurt his feelings, but there is NO way I could be with him or flirt with him. If you've seen me post before, or seen my introduction, you know that...I don't want to sound mean and tell him flat out that I don't love him back, but I can't tell Josh either, because I don't want to cause problems. I just don't know what to do because I enjoy his friendship and he's part of Josh's family :-/. It's really confusing. Any advice?
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Mar 15 2005, 06:57 PM
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Your best bet is just to try to act is if though he has no feelings towards you. I'm sure he's grown fond of you, because he might hear about you all the time from your boyfriend. That's happened between my friend and I. She used to tell me about her boyfriend all the time, and I had ended up developing this sort of crush, but then after awhile, I got over it.
If anything, sit down with him, and talk to him about the situation, tell him it's awkward, and that nothing is ever going to come out of you two except a friendship. Just tell it like it is. |
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iwalkbackwards boyfriend's cousin Mar 14 2005, 02:42 PM
dahding first off, find out for a fact if or if not he lik... Mar 14 2005, 02:46 PM
cRaZiiXbEauTiFul ummm avoid him?? Mar 14 2005, 03:27 PM
Shortiiex are you sure he loves you?
just never bring up teh... Mar 14 2005, 03:32 PM
iwalkbackwards QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Mar 14 2005, 4:32 PM)are yo... Mar 14 2005, 03:37 PM
yukichan QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Mar 14 2005, 10:32 AM)are y... Mar 14 2005, 10:02 PM
_sarcastic_ you don't have to tell him flat out that you d... Mar 14 2005, 05:01 PM
--x who0ps i doubt he loves you.
most likely, its jst a crush... Mar 14 2005, 08:47 PM
stephinika ^^
agreed. he's probably just rather...infatua... Mar 14 2005, 08:53 PM
preciousme you should knoe for sure if that guy really likes ... Mar 14 2005, 09:14 PM
xd0rkette I agree with the above.
It could be just a crush..... Mar 14 2005, 09:25 PM
d0rkbaby do you always see him? or is it once in a while? Mar 14 2005, 09:30 PM
iwalkbackwards QUOTE(d0rkbaby @ Mar 14 2005, 10:30 PM)do you... Mar 14 2005, 09:34 PM
d0rkbaby umm then i guess you could just suggest to your bf... Mar 14 2005, 09:36 PM
ilauqh QUOTEummm avoid him??
^I agree. And if avoiding ... Mar 14 2005, 09:55 PM
toodlepops. Tell him straight up that he's annoying you. Mar 14 2005, 10:38 PM
K!$$ QUOTE(stephinika @ Mar 15 2005, 9:53 AM)he... Mar 15 2005, 04:50 AM
iwalkbackwards QUOTE(K!$$ @ Mar 15 2005, 5:50 ... Mar 15 2005, 11:48 AM
EmmalieV make it clear how much you love your boyfriend to ... Mar 15 2005, 02:37 PM
picaso_smile Ignore it. Pretend like he doesn't like you an... Mar 15 2005, 07:02 PM
cHuNsAbAbIe012 avoiding him is not a good idea...give him hints n... Mar 16 2005, 03:11 PM
greedybunny92 you THINK he likes you but is it TRUE that he like... Mar 16 2005, 03:14 PM![]() ![]() |