Stuck in The Middle, ugh. im caught in between 2 friends |
Stuck in The Middle, ugh. im caught in between 2 friends |
Mar 14 2005, 09:17 PM
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WONDERWOMAN? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 335 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,636 |
Ugh. I hate drama, but it always seems to find a way to me. But anyway, I have two friends Ashley and Naomi. They just arent getting along at all right now. Before, they were perfectly fine with eachother. In fact, they were pretty close. But Ashley just never trusted Naomi. Something happended on Saturday, and Ashley is pretty much just taking it out on Naomi. I mean, Naomi didnt do anything AT ALL to hurt Ashley and she's just been avoiding her at school and church. I cant even hang out with the both of them at the same time anymore.
Today I called Ashley to see what was bothering her. She told me that Naomi just wasnt a good person and that she just couldnt trust her based on what people had been telling her. I mean, I admit Naomi is a hard person to trust, especially if you start off on her bad side, but I mean, it's not like Naomi did anything to Ashley. Now Ashley is just talking a whole bunch of smack to everyone about Naomi and Naomi is just clueless as to why Ashley is mad at her. Gosh they just keep talking about eachother with me, and I hate being in the middle. Yea, I know it's all a VERY confusing story because I left out a lot of details, but please try to help me if you understand. Thanks. |
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Mar 15 2005, 03:54 AM
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![]() naïvety ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(--x who0ps @ Mar 15 2005, 10:22 AM) jst go uh huh, uh huh, when they talk to you. but dont say anything. zip. if you get into this fight, you might lose both of your friends. jst let them work it out. theres no way to help them. best way is to jst mind your own business. ^ I agree. Be careful when you're stuck in the middle in these situations. QUOTE(WrathOfOnigo @ Mar 15 2005, 10:57 AM) Tie them down and force them to talk it out. Make sure they understand that they are also hurting YOU by making you the "middle" person. ^ True. I don't think Ashley and Naomi understand how this is affecting you. Tell them. And make sure Naomi knows that Ashley isn't mad at her for any particular reason. Don't take sides, though, or they might team up on you and you'll lose them both. |
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Eternally_Yours Stuck in The Middle Mar 14 2005, 09:17 PM
xd0rkette Wow. I kind of was in the middle of one of those s... Mar 14 2005, 09:21 PM
Shortiiex that is a tough problem...
-you could wait and see... Mar 14 2005, 09:21 PM
nevernothere Try to explain the situation to Naomi, and try to ... Mar 14 2005, 09:21 PM
--x who0ps jst go uh huh, uh huh, when they talk to you.
but ... Mar 14 2005, 09:22 PM
X-Zeifer Tell ashley she cant judge noami by what other peo... Mar 14 2005, 09:22 PM
WrathOfOnigo Tie them down and force them to talk it out. Make... Mar 14 2005, 09:57 PM
EmmalieV Get them to talk to each other. Mar 15 2005, 02:42 PM
Eternally_Yours O YAY! I'm so happy. I guess having a talk... Mar 15 2005, 09:54 PM
K!$$ QUOTE(Eternally_Yours @ Mar 16 2005, 10:54 AM... Mar 16 2005, 04:31 AM
xReLix11 uhhh thats tough Mar 15 2005, 09:55 PM
cHuNsAbAbIe012 lol! i been in that situation. u've been d... Mar 16 2005, 03:05 PM
Angel_Cece i've been stuck between by two best friends fo... Mar 16 2005, 03:17 PM
s0pnayish I'm in that situation right now. It sucks beca... Mar 17 2005, 12:56 AM
whatiismae talk to each one-on-one about whats happening, and... Mar 19 2005, 04:48 PM
Shattered_Hope get them both to sit down and talk
or
you could ju... Mar 22 2005, 03:56 PM![]() ![]() |