hey im new and i need advice., =) Options

[jumphopper]

hey ppl. im new to this im been reading all these great post and i need a little help myself.
just recently a good friend of mine and i decided to stop talking to eachother cause she wanted just to be friends however, i wanted to be more... it was a mutual agreement. we used to talk everyday and now it all of a sudden came to a hault.

i know this may sound a little shallow. but i was wondering if you ppl had any advice on how i can get her to realize what shes missing? is there any small things i could do? any tips? cause i think about her alot and i just wanted to see if she thinks about me too.

thanks for all the input. its greatly appreciated.

- jumphopper.

[topsyturvy]

Well, this isn't much of a question anymore. She answered saying she doesn't want anything standing in the way of her future. How much more obvious can she be?

You have to think of it this way: She's scared to turn you down. That thing about her future is an excuse.

Sorry to sound harsh, but that's how I see it.


EDIT//

Here's something you can try. Tomorrow, act totally normal (be nice and all).. except pretend to cram yourself full of activities, like you're too busy for her. As soon as she realizes this, how she reacts is how much she cares.