My dad, I hate him, yet, I don't |
 Mar 5 2005, 11:47 PM
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So, I was told that when I was little, my dad never held me like a "normal" father should. Sure, he gives me everything that I need : Food, a roof over my head and some shopping trips from time to time. But there's one thing missing; love. He's never EVER said the worlds, "I love you" or has even hugged me. He yells at me constantly and says things like, "I wish you were dead along with your mother." I KNOW he doesnt mean it..But still. It huirts. Also, I just joined track this year as a freshman and my uncles and aunts think I'll do a good job. But then there's my dad on the other side saying, "Oh no. She'll never place in any of her events." Or, "She's not good at running, trust me. I've seen her." WTF? He's NEVER come to any of my Pointe ballet recitals or dance competitions, nor has he even seen me run.
I don't want sympathy, I just want to know what I should say to him so I won't lose another parent. |
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Mar 13 2005, 08:46 PM
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If you lost your mom, maybe you remind him alot of her, and honestly, he probably misses her, and you're a reminder of her to him, so in order to banish those feelings, he just rants at you and whatnot.
Write your dad a letter, telling hiim how he treats you really upsets you, and leaves you hurt. I'm sure it'll be better to do that, then to tell him to his face, it might be easier on you and whatnot. |
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MeLoNiSyUmMy My dad Mar 5 2005, 11:47 PM
imalilpeanut23 just talk to him and tell him how you feel. i have... Mar 6 2005, 12:24 AM angel_revelation o... wow. sorry my dad always shows his love, so... Mar 6 2005, 12:47 AM dani41790 wow. thats really harsh. if i were u i would b*tch... Mar 6 2005, 01:09 AM tungtwista same here i hate my dad..but yet he is my dad..and... Mar 6 2005, 01:14 AM krnfriscoballer just deal with it .... everyone has problems with... Mar 6 2005, 02:03 AM the_crox yeah.... go talk to him. Mar 6 2005, 03:34 AM bad_girl did ur mom pass away or smth? maybe he's just ... Mar 6 2005, 04:09 AM barelyy_coherent He should probably go see a counsellor or psychiat... Mar 6 2005, 04:14 AM perfectxflaw23 I have tons of problems with my dad, too. I'm ... Mar 6 2005, 09:24 AM strwbrrykiwi23 i'm sorry you have to go through that...
but m... Mar 6 2005, 09:49 AM Yrpsyuna oh my gosh..that's horrible T.T i'm so sor... Mar 6 2005, 12:30 PM DanielleMaria05 I know how you feel. My dad is the same way. I can... Mar 6 2005, 01:50 PM clarissa you should tell him how you feel. by doing that, m... Mar 6 2005, 01:56 PM xxaznxgurlxx i think you should tell your dad about your feelin... Mar 6 2005, 08:42 PM hunnigurl01 . . . . kinda reminds me of my dad =\ Mar 6 2005, 08:43 PM yukichan thats how my dad acts...well he used to...u should... Mar 6 2005, 09:32 PM AngelTears Well.. I think you should talk to your other relit... Mar 6 2005, 09:54 PM Shortiiex talking to him might help...but sometimes ppl don... Mar 6 2005, 09:55 PM sharpieaddicteD moved to relationships Mar 7 2005, 02:17 PM cHuNsAbAbIe012 first try talking to him urself n then take it out... Mar 7 2005, 04:04 PM x_y0urElectrikk Thats how my dad is.
Only I dont like my dad at ... Mar 7 2005, 05:21 PM Cake. Spend more time with him. Mar 7 2005, 05:27 PM xXMomoBubbleTeaXx OMG?!?!?!...I think that you should te... Mar 7 2005, 06:07 PM lilconfusedbabiix3 nothing`s worked for me, im in the same situat... Mar 7 2005, 06:12 PM xj_liana_tx my dad is similar to your dad, dads like ours want... Mar 7 2005, 06:40 PM sm0kinm0nky yeah thats like my dad, my dad never went to my sc... Mar 7 2005, 06:44 PM ichiban Tell him you dont appreciate him bitching at you a... Mar 7 2005, 11:24 PM xourzest omfg my dad's like that to and he starts swear... Mar 8 2005, 12:52 AM Shattered_Hope I'm sorry but my dad isn't all that great... Mar 13 2005, 08:40 PM jordanriane If you lost your mom, maybe you remind him alot of... Mar 13 2005, 08:43 PM SSJ Kenshin Alas, I too have had problems with my father, but ... Mar 13 2005, 10:14 PM Just_Dream Yea well.. my father never showed me "love... Mar 13 2005, 11:40 PM toodlepops. I'm so sorry.
Maybe when you see your dad in ... Mar 14 2005, 04:48 AM _lub_u_ [omG! im in the same situation as u and stuff.... Mar 19 2005, 01:22 AM Teesa aw, sorry about your tough situation..it's goi... Mar 19 2005, 02:05 AM xXirockhardXx Im sorry you have to go threw that. I think you sh... Mar 19 2005, 07:26 PM ohBrian hey i feel you..
youre lucky to have your dad wh... Mar 19 2005, 07:39 PM audory oh man. i'm so sorry to hear that. talk it ove... Mar 20 2005, 02:25 AM aznmonkeypunk i think you should just say "f**k you" a... Mar 24 2005, 01:11 PM xiaobing QUOTE(MeLoNiSyUmMy @ Mar 5 2005, 10:47 PM)So,... Mar 25 2005, 01:11 PM swe3ttemptasian aww, this makes me want to cry.. Mar 25 2005, 02:26 PM mona lisa my dad doesn't show much love either. never hu... Mar 25 2005, 02:33 PM l_baybeexgrl_l yeah, i understand where you're coming from. ... Mar 26 2005, 11:14 PM Wolverine0723 I fell sorry, for you, I knida know what you feel.... Mar 30 2005, 06:17 PM Frankie maybe that is how he was treated whenever he was a... Mar 30 2005, 06:39 PM xvi3tbuddyx . how sad. that doesnt happen to meeh. my dad rel... Mar 31 2005, 01:43 AM Jennilicious23 you should definately talk to him about it. If you... Apr 6 2005, 04:30 AM IamRad just randomly tell him u love him
my dad has neve... Apr 6 2005, 05:04 PM Spiritual Winged Aura 1. Give him a book about loving his own child.
2. ... Apr 7 2005, 01:41 AM salcha I am in the same situation as you.
My dad OR mom h... Apr 7 2005, 02:20 AM
sparklebabygirl QUOTE(wonders79 @ Apr 7 2005, 2:20 AM)I am in... Apr 7 2005, 09:26 PM sparklebabygirl QUOTE(MeLoNiSyUmMy @ Mar 5 2005, 11:47 PM)So,... Apr 7 2005, 09:25 PM |
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