my friend was basicly raped |
 Mar 13 2005, 03:56 AM
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 my pet rock doesn't like you  Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,866  |
What do if your friend has basicly been raped? [he hasn't gone inside her - but he forced her to do alot of other stuff; ex: oral].
I'm worried for her because she was shaking & scared to death when she was telling me all the details of it. I was sworn to secrecy but I feel like i need to tell an adult so i can get her some help. what should i do? [edit] thanks guys - I talked to a older student also. She told me to first tell her parents, then accompany her to the hospital or a doctor to have her checked [they didn't have a condom!], then go and tell the police. This is really sad because the guy is a really close friend to her family - especially her brother. In fact, she had a crush on him before she knew what he was about. I warned her that he was way to old for her (shes 14 and hes 20) and that she should be careful expressing her feelings around him, but i guess she didn't take my advice. She also recently cut herself really deep just yesterday, and she might have really hurt herself because she lost alot of blood. Sheesh..this world is so messed up. |
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Mar 13 2005, 02:17 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
you could ask her permission before you tell an adult.
but then again...she is your friend..and maybe you should do what she is afraid to do... it's up to you...basically.. |
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Mar 13 2005, 06:11 PM
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 LiLaZnGurL Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Mar 13 2005, 2:17 PM) you could ask her permission before you tell an adult. but then again...she is your friend..and maybe you should do what she is afraid to do... it's up to you...basically..  yea i think u should do that instead of going behind her back she might get mad.. aww mann da guy is so wrong but u should go talk to her about telling sum 1 like a paernt |
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ch33sylici0us my friend was basicly raped Mar 13 2005, 03:56 AM
Nicolatofu I'd tell her that she should really consider t... Mar 13 2005, 04:13 AM angel-roh Hm go and call the police. So it can be settled. W... Mar 13 2005, 04:16 AM
yukichan QUOTE(angel-roh @ Mar 12 2005, 11:16 PM)... Mar 13 2005, 03:34 PM dani41790 i think you really should tell an adult. he might ... Mar 13 2005, 07:00 AM _sarcastic_ you should ask her to tell an adult. not go behin... Mar 13 2005, 07:27 AM xXMomoBubbleTeaXx QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Mar 13 2005, 8:27 AM)you ... Mar 13 2005, 02:18 PM purestkiss101 QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Mar 13 2005, 7:27 AM)you ... Mar 13 2005, 02:20 PM toodlepops. You shouldn't hide something as serious as thi... Mar 13 2005, 07:36 AM perfectxflaw23 I have been raped. I can't speak for this girl... Mar 13 2005, 07:39 AM yanners ^ aw..i'm sorry
you should tell someone, ma... Mar 13 2005, 08:06 AM swe3ttemptasian talk to her about it. Tell her its important that ... Mar 13 2005, 03:36 PM becomingAWARE take a cue from degrassi and send her to a doctor ... Mar 13 2005, 04:32 PM Cake. Rape is a crime. Go tell the police, before the ma... Mar 13 2005, 06:14 PM xo_rock She NEEDS to tell her parents, not just an ordinar... Mar 16 2005, 03:17 PM jordanriane xo_rock, read the edit on her entry; she's upd... Mar 16 2005, 03:44 PM |
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