damn this is confusing, pretty personal Options

[EmmalieV]

SO , I was at my basically "boyfriends " house its in quotes because its not offical yet. Yea I was with him , my best friends uncle , my other friend and the uncles friend

with me? ok.

Now I was with the guy (joel)
My friend was with the uncles friend ("bob")

and the unlce was just there on the computer and my best friend isnt there because shes in NJ and whatever.

so we were all in the bed under the covers and he decided that he wanted to have sex , now im a virgin and he didnt have a condom and he was like comeon just a little bit I was like no no no ,and no finally he got up then i thinkhe went to wash his hands. Afterwards he asked if i was mad at him im like yeah because I told you no and you kept on insisting hes like no next time when you tell me no Ill let go of you right away.

Should I forgive him??

I think i should ...idk.

[x shootingstar x]

ALL GUYS ARE NOT LIKE THAT why are girls saying that they are like that?? don't let anyone f*ck around with you and make you believe it's okay because they promise they'll never do it again

before, when me and my boyfriend would have sex it would hurt me a lot and when i told him to stop he'd stop right away even though he was really horny...i'm not saying that all great men are like him but people should have self control and respect

i don't think you should forgive him because of the fact that he's not even your boyfriend yet and he wants to have sex and/or mess around already...that usually means that's all he wants you for...he should've made a commitment to you first

i think it's kind of gross because other people were around...did he really expect to have sex with those people there and without a condom?? 

COMPLETELY agree!! yes.. not all guys are like that.. and plus.. he's not ur "boyfriend" yet.