undescribable feelings Options

[LoST SouL]

has anyone eva started thinkin about liek a friend or a best friend [of the opposite gender] then suddenly got the feeling that they relly relly liked and wanted [not sexualy] and missed him or her?... just like you were thinkin about this person and u realized how much he or she ment to u and how hapy they make u and u suddnely figure out that he or she is the answer to all your problems? like u kno if u kud jus b theirs more than a friend everything would just be perfect....

[topsyturvy]

if you're really going to pursue him...make sure it's for all the right reasons, things like this are serious.  don't do it because it's for right now and you have no one else...do it because to you, he's mr right.

^ I agree. If you were shallow, you would go for him just because you're lonely and want someone to cuddle. After the affection fades out, you'll realize there wasn't any love between you two all along.

we tried it didnt work.. and now we dont even talk.. word of advice.. if you treasure the friendship.. dont go out with him...

^ Actually, it really depends on how much you guys work towards the relationship. I know lots of people who went out with their closest friend from the opposite sex and their relationships are working fine. Sorry to hear it didn't work for you, though.

if you do believe you have a chance with him then maybe you should tell him how you feel.

^ I think she should tell him anyway, just to let it out. If she continues to keep this all inside, she'll explode sooner or later.