help please its a girl thing, guys Options

[lillostblomde14]

ok my boyfriend and i hae been dating for 1 year 2 months and since like 3/4 months ago he started playin this game n he joined the team on the game and in this game u can use a head phone 2 talk...so wen he joined he still called me all the time n stuff then all the guys started making fun of him 4 having a g/f and always callin he and they told him he was wipped..since they started teasing him he has totally changed he always places him game he plays from the the minute he gets home till he goes 2 bed...his moods have change he gets mad reali easy now and he is always gettin mad at me and always turnign things so it looks like its my fault we use to hang out everyday after skool now we only hang out once a week and we use to talk on the phone all the time and be with each other on the weekends but now all he does is place him game he doesnt even bother showing his emotions anymore....i love him so0o0o much and i never wanna lose him but hes making me like im nothin and when i try to tell him he gets all mad and say im the 1 thats changed.. so wat do you think can you guys please let me no so i no wat 2 do and no y hes doing this please and thank you!!

[Just_Dream]

Wow.. you should breakl up with him. I agree, if he truly liked (or even loved) you, he DEFINITELY would NOT put his friends before you. Not to mention that the guys on his "team" are probably JUST internet friends to him. He needs a reality check. pb[He's taking you for granted.[/b] Leave him and see what will happen. The fact that he didn't break up with you means that somehow, someway, he's still holding on.. even if it's just a tiny bit.

Gaming should not affect his social life. My boyfriend is an extreme gamer at times (he played FFXI, now WoW-World of Warcraft, Halo 2, etc) with all 3 gaming systems (GC, PS2, XBOX, GB SP, and in 2 weeks he'll get PSP), but he still makes time for me. Although I do get angry at him, I realized that gaming is in his nature. I can't fully stop him, but at the same time I told myself I wouldn't contribute to his gaming lol. But in the end I ended up buying him a game And yea..

I know you want to stay with him; by the way you're telling us your story, I can tell that you want him to change back to the way he was and actually acknowledge the fact that you're there. TELL him how you feel. If he gets angry at you, break up with him. I know it WILL BE HARD TO DO THAT, but it's best that you do. Go find a guy who can treat you right and make you top priority over any game, any day. You deserve at least that much, despite however long you've been dating this low-life that you're currently with.