This girl.., my boyfriend ex Options

[Fatality]

Alright. This girl named, let's call her Jamie, still has a very large crush on her ex who is my boyfriend. She also has a boyfriend whom she has cheated on 3 or more times but continuously tells him.."I Love You.." which is crap because she doesn't. She willingly admits to my boyfriend she still has feelings for him and that he is better than her current boyfriend. I confronted her on this. I;m a 5'6 "goth" girl who has broken 6 kids nose at my current school. She know's this. She's afraid. She lies. Well, Today I find out she's telling everyone the "details" about her relationship with my boyfriend. I'm not happy..

Instead of me getting suspended again..
What should I do?

I've tried the "tell her boyfriend she cheated" thing.
He believed her.
I've fought with her in the hall.
Got in trouble.
I slammed her face into a locker,
BUT only after she drug her nails over my face..

What can I do without resorting to violence.

P.S.-I never start these. She's always hitting me. -.-

[*suddenly she*]

learn how to grapple.. joint locks. if she takes it too far, and there are visible injuries on you, put her in a joint lock. don't hurt her or injure her, so there's no blame on you. but make her know that if she even tries for your guy, then you'll actually break her arm the next time.

um.. if i wasn't going to use violence..

write her a nice note, spelling it out nicely and clearly that you don't appreciate her stupidity. if it doesn't work, write a harsher note with the same motives, and involve whatever might wake her up. it might be brutal, but what has to be done, needs to be done.

same with dahding, if your guy likes her, leave.

i'd hate to go to your school. no offense, but i've given a boy a bloody jaw because he was insulting a friend of mine and nothing happened to me. maybe it's because all the teachers love me. or because i'm on staff.

this is a bit off subject, but you sound like a really cool person.