being shy, uggh... |
being shy, uggh... |
Mar 5 2005, 08:45 PM
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You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
i HATE being shy! (and somewhat of a low self image)
there's this guy in my PE class. this past week we've been doing square dancing, and he actually asked to be my partner! i was kind of trying to stand away from him for some reason. i'm really doubtful if he likes me because 1) he's cute, popular and outgoing. so not like me. and 2) is in 9th grade, and i'm in 8th. i know that most ppl say that popularity doesnt matter, but it always does! he's given me hints, but i'm never sure if i'm just misunderstanding them as just being friendly or his normal goofy self. i'm also worried about if he asks me out. what would i say? it would be a problem to be in different grades, have different friends, not being able to drive... lol. and i dont think i could live up to the "standards" of a girlfriend... *sigh* srry if this doesnt make sense... does anyone else have this problem? |
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Mar 8 2005, 10:07 PM
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![]() iuvenesco ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,221 |
well, its good if one of you is outgoing at least. the age difference doesnt really matter. and you can work things out if you guys really like each other. but for now, if you're not sure, just be friendly with him for now. act as if he were your regular guy friend or something. that way you'll open up more to him, and you'll both be more comfortable with each other.
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angel_revelation being shy Mar 5 2005, 08:45 PM
Liquid_Massacre I've never had that problem, on account of, I... Mar 5 2005, 09:28 PM
aZNbLUMUNKEEbUTT QUOTE(Liquid_Massacre @ Mar 5 2005, 6:28 PM)I... Mar 5 2005, 09:31 PM
njgurl412 oh man .. im one the shyest people in the world. ... Mar 5 2005, 09:30 PM
CUTEBUNNY160 QUOTE(njgurl412 @ Mar 5 2005, 6:30 PM)oh man ... Mar 8 2005, 08:33 PM
leeniex3 I think if you like him you should go for it (; yo... Mar 5 2005, 09:34 PM
angel_revelation QUOTE(leeniex3 @ Mar 5 2005, 9:34 PM)I think ... Mar 5 2005, 09:54 PM
iheartsimba Moved to relationships, because more then just gir... Mar 5 2005, 09:35 PM
dragonzfyre666 i am so shy it's not even funny...my friends s... Mar 5 2005, 09:46 PM
xXirockhardXx I have the same problem. When ever the guy that i ... Mar 5 2005, 10:18 PM
ilauqh Don't jump to conclusions. Spend more time wit... Mar 5 2005, 11:44 PM
angel_revelation QUOTE(ilauqh @ Mar 5 2005, 11:44 PM)Don't... Mar 6 2005, 01:16 AM
HoodieObsessed well, I donno waht to do about your case but anwya... Mar 5 2005, 11:46 PM
krnfriscoballer just scream and act wild that might be it im not s... Mar 6 2005, 02:23 AM
DORKalicious ughh i have the same exact problem lol.I used to l... Mar 6 2005, 09:38 PM
amhso I have a shy girlfriend and its fine to me. Just d... Mar 7 2005, 02:34 AM
EmmalieV one year diffrence doesnt matter!!!... Mar 7 2005, 02:31 PM
EmmalieV one year diffrence doesnt matter!!!... Mar 7 2005, 02:36 PM
Shortiiex i am not that shy and usually ppl have problems sa... Mar 7 2005, 04:03 PM
x_y0urElectrikk I'm Like so shy.. i hate it!! I wish ... Mar 7 2005, 05:24 PM
my_sunshine wow, 8th gracde and 9th grade in one school?!
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angel_revelation QUOTE(my_sunshine @ Mar 8 2005, 2:48 AM)wow, ... Mar 8 2005, 10:28 PM
BitterSweetness if he does ask you, just say "i'll think ... Mar 8 2005, 10:13 PM
DrEaMgUy2K1 Who you date should not depend on who your friends... Mar 8 2005, 10:59 PM
TYPiKALFEMME well you have to know the guy personally first bef... Mar 8 2005, 11:22 PM
gponce10104 if i were you and if a guy like that asked me out ... Mar 9 2005, 06:38 PM
xtreme_<3 oh man oh man ..haha i'm exactly the same. exc... Mar 9 2005, 07:21 PM
Frankie sometimes. but i usually get over it in a short wh... Mar 9 2005, 07:22 PM
michelina~kudelka He likes you, and you like him, there is no need t... Mar 13 2005, 08:28 AM
justalanna Just start off by being friends with him. Think of... Mar 13 2005, 05:33 PM![]() ![]() |