Help with Video Player, controling when movies play Options

[abe55]

Can anyone tell me how to stop my videos from playing automatically when you open open up my blog? It is eating up all my free band with. Here is my the Video Code from my site.

<!-- begin code provided by createblog.com --><br /><br /><!-- begin code provided by createblog.com --><br /><div id="video player" style="position:absolute; right:100px; top:1150px; width:0px; z-index:0"><br /><div style="width:230px; background: #cccccc; border: 0px solid none; height: 100%; padding-left: 15px; padding-right: 15px; padding-top: 25px; padding-bottom: 0px"><br /><object id="darkplayer" codeBase="http://activex.microsoft.com/activex/controls/mplayer/en/nsmp2inf.cab#Version=5,1,52,701" type="application/x-oleobject" height="150" standby="Loading Microsoft Windows Media Player components..." width="225" classid="CLSID:22d6f312-b0f6-11d0-94ab-0080c74c7e95"><Br><br /><param NAME VALUE><br /><param NAME="ShowControls" VALUE="0"><br /><param NAME="ShowStatusBar" VALUE="0"><br /><param NAME="ShowDisplay" VALUE="0"><br /><param NAME="DefaultFrame" VALUE="Slide"><br /><param NAME="Autostart" VALUE="1"><br /><param NAME="Loop" VALUE="False"><br /></object><br /><form name="form"><table align="Center"><br /><select style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt; BACKGROUND:#000000; WIDTH: 225; COLOR: #FFFFFF; font-face: Arial; height:10" name="playlist" size="1"><br /><br /><option value="0">PA Explodes</option><br /><br /><option value="1">Favorite Things</option><br /><br /><option value="2">Dodgeball</option><br /><br /></select><Br><br /><input TYPE="BUTTON" NAME="darkplay" VALUE="    play    " OnClick="play(document.forms['form'].playlist);"><br /><input TYPE="BUTTON" NAME="darkstop" VALUE="    stop    " OnClick="document.darkplayer.stop(); playstate=2;"></form><br /><script language="JavaScript"><br /><!--<br />var playstate = 1;<br />shuffle = 1;  // set to 0 to always play first song in list<br />              // set to 1 to randomly choose the first song to play<br /> // www.xanga.com/smartypants91780<br />  // unlimited songs, just copy and paste the song line and change the number<br />songs=new Array();<br /><br />songs[0]="http://home.ripway.com/2005-2/256698/paexplodes.wmv"<br /><br />songs[1]="http://home.ripway.com/2005-2/256698/favoritethingsbest.wmv"<br /><br />songs[2]="http://home.ripway.com/2005-2/256698/dodgeball2_0002.wmv"<br /><br />if (shuffle == 1) {<br />var randsg = Math.floor(Math.random()*songs.length);<br />document.darkplayer.FileName = songs[randsg];<br />document.darkplayer.scr = songs[randsg];<br />document.forms['form'].playlist.options[randsg].selected = true;<br />}<br />function play(list) {<br />if (playstate == 2) {<br />document.darkplayer.Play();<br />} else {<br />var snum = list.options[list.selectedIndex].value<br />document.darkplayer.FileName = songs[snum];<br />document.darkplayer.scr = songs[snum];<br />}<br />playstate = 1;<br />}<br />//--></script><br /></div><br /><!-- end code provided by createblog.com --><br /><br /><!-- end code provided by createblog.com -->

Any information would be great.