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Lets just say that there is this guy I know... lets call him bob .... and then there is his friend.. lets just call her ally.... lets say that ally likes bob... but bob does not like her in that way... he loves her like a sister... but ally said to bob that she really likes him more then the way that bob likes her.... and bob wants to tell ally that he loves her like a sister nothing more...but afraid what will happen when he tells her... especially since she has gone thru a dramatic moment in her life....lets just say that it was a death of a family member....so what should bob do?...should he tell her the truth even though it will just add to the pain that ally already has....or what?
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your bob arent you?
lol... sorry i think it's kinda obvious or am i just assuming things??? or ima stop. well bob should tell her. in a really really nice way.... like "hey ally... i want to tell you something but i'm not sure if youre ready for it... do you want me to tell you or wait til your ok and stuff..." something like that... if she says no dont tell her. dont tell her... you just gonna have to tolerate her for awhile... after all someone died... i feel so damn helpful ![]() ![]() |
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QUOTE(purpleyes @ Mar 7 2005, 11:40 AM) your bob arent you? lol... sorry i think it's kinda obvious or am i just assuming things??? or ima stop. well bob should tell her. in a really really nice way.... like "hey ally... i want to tell you something but i'm not sure if youre ready for it... do you want me to tell you or wait til your ok and stuff..." something like that... if she says no dont tell her. dont tell her... you just gonna have to tolerate her for awhile... after all someone died... i feel so damn helpful ![]() ![]() hypothetically speaking... yes... so its not me speaking about myself in third person ![]() QUOTE Bob should tell her even if it may hurt but in a gentle and calm way though. hmmm thats hard... how to tell someone something that hurts them...but if I....err i mean "bob".... lies and then tells the truth later on.... then its going to be even more hurtful....-sigh-.... the first option seems right by telling the truth early on.... but its alot easier to just think about that... and really hard to actually tell someone that.... |
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