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Complicated situation..., What should I do!?
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post Mar 6 2005, 09:09 AM
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Okay, there's this guy that my friend knows, and I talk to him over AIM. He seemed really nice and stuff so I talked to him a lot, we got along. I started to like him, but he was really into this girl Stephanie who didn't like him at all. She had a boyfriend, but she kept telling him she liked him. Meanwhile, the friend that introduced me to him knew I liked him so she told him bad stuff about Stephanie and good stuff about me. Now he likes me but is all depressed and stuff and cuts. He's really dependant on me, like if I dont call or get on AIM whenever he wants he says he'll kill himself. I don't like him anymore because he's freaking me out, and he's telling me he's in love with me. (We haven't even met, and he's saying he loves me.) I've been avoiding him because he really really freaks me out, but today I had to talk to him. I told him that I couldn't have him put a guild-trip on me whenever he didn't get something he wanted. And he put another guilt trip on me. I told him to stop, because I don't wanna hang around or be friends with people who are constantaly making me feel bad. I signed off saying I might do something drastic. I think he meant commit suicide or something, but I wanna tell someone he cuts. Our school district has a program that you can call annonamusly and tell people about that kind of thing....but his parents know, and aren't doing anything about it. Should I get the school district involved?

Sorry if that took forever to read..but it's really complacated.
 
 
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post Mar 6 2005, 09:09 PM
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he needs help...but not because of "cutting" himself which i highly doubt he does. all he's doing is trying to guilt you into liking him more and when you do, he's going to control you. i've been there, stay away from guys like that. everything he probably told you are lies, and it's easy for him to trick you because you've never met!!! he peobably gave you that bullsh*t about how his parents don't care, he's depressed, you're his only friend, and blah blah blah _dry.gif

i hate it when people throw around "i love you" to trap their victims _dry.gif

this is what you do:
1.) look at your buddy list and delete him
2.) go to your preferences in your buddy list and on privacy and click that "allow only users on my buddy list" under the "who can contact me" thing
3.) that loser is gone and can't make up a new screenname to contact you laugh.gif


QUOTE((>")> @ Mar 6 2005, 9:06 PM)
Do you know what this reminded me of...that song by eminem "stan" try watching the music video (this is part of the topic..not going off-topic..read on)

stan.. hes like addicted eminem in the video...like your friend whos a lil addicted to you...i think he kinda needs help cuz hes going insane from a crush...its just a crush you know...so is he Cutting himself because of you?...i think you should kinda tell the district...thats what i would do...but its ur choice...
but this is kinda a sad story...
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those are rare situations, and plus eminem is famous. psycho people love celebrities
 

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ficklenesswhatever   Complicated situation...   Mar 6 2005, 09:09 AM
--x who0ps   whoaa your friend needs some serious help. yes, t...   Mar 6 2005, 08:24 PM
dahding   haha, ur friend's a douche. who cares. let him...   Mar 6 2005, 08:30 PM
KiRbYg0t2MuChSuGaR   you should tell the district. someone needs to hel...   Mar 6 2005, 08:56 PM
(>")>   Do you know what this reminded me of...that song b...   Mar 6 2005, 09:06 PM
Programmer   kids got issues.....break up with him because it...   Mar 6 2005, 09:08 PM
Chii   he needs help...but not because of "cutting...   Mar 6 2005, 09:09 PM
(>")>   up there^^^^^^^ (this is what you do: 1.) look at...   Mar 6 2005, 09:13 PM
EmmalieV   yeah , get counselors involved.   Mar 6 2005, 09:17 PM
Stupidxaimee   Yes you shuold go tell the school district because...   Mar 6 2005, 09:22 PM
yukichan   u should tell the district..if the parents rnt hel...   Mar 6 2005, 09:28 PM
cHuNsAbAbIe012   yea...get him help. he needs some serious help. ps...   Mar 7 2005, 04:21 PM
ficklenesswhatever   I told him that I didn't want to hang around w...   Mar 7 2005, 05:33 PM
xXMomoBubbleTeaXx   yes you should tell the school board district what...   Mar 7 2005, 06:01 PM
subzero   so, you contact the district and they take action?...   Mar 7 2005, 06:16 PM
xj_liana_tx   call... he sounds like a threat, not only to himse...   Mar 7 2005, 07:04 PM
th5418   Let him kill himself. It's thje only solution.   Mar 7 2005, 07:07 PM
Ombra   i say you get far far away from him. hes looking f...   Mar 7 2005, 08:02 PM
ficklenesswhatever   Uugh. I called the hotline or whatever, and it tur...   Mar 7 2005, 08:05 PM
Ombra   tell the school councler or write an e-mail or let...   Mar 7 2005, 08:08 PM
Aesirus   QUOTE(ficklenesswhatever @ Mar 6 2005, 10:09 ...   Mar 7 2005, 08:09 PM
ficklenesswhatever   Eh. The district didn't work...I am dreading t...   Mar 8 2005, 07:59 AM
justalanna   Don't be afraid to tell a school counselor. Te...   Mar 8 2005, 12:40 PM
ficklenesswhatever   He called...I had my mum say I wasn't home...U...   Mar 8 2005, 06:14 PM
CUTEBUNNY160   i say tell cause this dude needs help.   Mar 8 2005, 06:17 PM
my_sunshine   this happened to me before. i used to be talking t...   Mar 9 2005, 02:31 AM
swe3ttemptasian   Yeah, you should get the school district to help h...   Mar 9 2005, 07:27 AM
ficklenesswhatever   Ugh...I don't want to...I'm too afraid som...   Mar 10 2005, 04:53 PM
Shattered_Hope   he needs help tell the school district.   Mar 22 2005, 04:33 PM


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