Rejection & Forgiving |
 Mar 1 2005, 10:58 PM
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What do you think is worse: Rejecting someone or being rejected? & are you a "forgiver" and someone who pretends that it never happened afterwards? (In terms of knowing them as friends, close or not, before it all happened. & in terms of "forgiving", you become great friends after a long while).
I seriously think both of them are quite bad. - Being rejected: Been through that, but guys at my age, are still immature compared to us girls. So they just ignore you, which totally crushes me. - Rejected a friend: It kills me, too. Especially if they try to flirt with you (even in front of your friends and you don't want to say anything mean to him. him coming up and asking you for a hug when you just gave one of your girl friends one is quite weird, especially in front of your friends!). - I'm a forgiving person: You can't control your emotions & if you're real true friends, you wouldn't stop your relationship just because of these things. But yea, it still slightly changes my point of view of him whenever I look at him or talk. O-well. One day you will get over it. |
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Mar 6 2005, 10:11 AM
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I think rejecting someone else is harder cause you don't want to hurt a person..w/ youself when you get rejected you know you can just get over it and if you werein there position you would understand how hard it is...for me I just don't like rejecting a guy cause you think they really care but they get over it soO fast...soOo don't worry about it ifyou have to reject a guy soon or later everyone has to a certain time...
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seremela_culnamo Rejection & Forgiving Mar 1 2005, 10:58 PM
sexii_dessert rejecting someone may hurt them, i know but it... Mar 1 2005, 11:03 PM c0oki3_m0n$tah ^^ kinda agree..it depends on what you're reje... Mar 1 2005, 11:12 PM silver rain Meh, I've been rejected and rejected before. B... Mar 1 2005, 11:22 PM salcha i think being rejected is worse, especially when i... Mar 1 2005, 11:28 PM minus_perfection being rejected is much worse.especially if you lik... Mar 2 2005, 12:14 AM Chii i'd rather be rejected than have to reject som... Mar 2 2005, 12:39 AM
dani41790 QUOTE(chii @ Mar 1 2005, 7:39 PM)i'd rath... Mar 6 2005, 01:14 AM angel-roh being rejected --- very not good. i hate getting r... Mar 2 2005, 12:53 AM Wishful_Dream - Being rejected: i dunno.. never been through tha... Mar 2 2005, 01:37 AM DanielleMaria05 Well, I've never been in a realationship to ex... Mar 2 2005, 10:43 AM captured_serenity i'm very forgiving and get rejected alot, and ... Mar 2 2005, 10:58 AM maia_dc Getting rejected is worst, I think. I'm a forg... Mar 2 2005, 03:14 PM EmmalieV getting rejected is way worse, Mar 2 2005, 05:00 PM njgurl412 being rejected is bad. Mar 2 2005, 05:02 PM angel_revelation its better reject them then to not, and then break... Mar 5 2005, 08:24 PM xBEBE I think being rejected is worse. But they both suc... Mar 5 2005, 08:26 PM iheartsimba moved to relationships =] Mar 5 2005, 09:37 PM cRaZiiXbEauTiFul well im too shy..so i wouldnt get rejected cuz id ... Mar 5 2005, 09:40 PM cocoalightning27 I've yet to been rejected but I think that whe... Mar 6 2005, 10:28 AM SuiE i remembered once i got rejected by this guy and n... Mar 6 2005, 10:34 AM BitterSweetness i rather rather reject someone than be rejected be... Mar 6 2005, 12:12 PM stephinika both suck. but...i'd probably rather reject so... Mar 6 2005, 07:09 PM SimplicityGirl Been to both situations, and I think that being re... Mar 6 2005, 07:09 PM swe3ttemptasian well, being rejected feels more worse..... mostly ... Mar 6 2005, 07:45 PM amhso The rejected feels worse, but i wud say there is m... Mar 7 2005, 02:31 AM cHuNsAbAbIe012 forgiving. or i try to cuz i ahve bf n i dont wann... Mar 7 2005, 04:22 PM Aesirus QUOTE(seremela_culnamo @ Mar 1 2005, 11:58 PM... Mar 7 2005, 08:03 PM my_sunshine been in both situations, but i`d rather be rej... Mar 8 2005, 02:45 AM Aesirus I've rejected people before, it's fun... Mar 8 2005, 08:00 AM CUTEBUNNY160 ionno i say both are really bad. Mar 8 2005, 06:13 PM |
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