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am i selfish?
Ombra
post Mar 5 2005, 01:41 PM
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am i selfish? my boyfriend has to do a band festival this year on my boyfriend. this is the first ever birthday that he would have been with me.. here ill show you the coverstation just a while ago.

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Ryan: Ilove you
Me: i love you too
Ryan: remember when you said that everyone always has to do something on your birthday?
Me: yea
Ryan: I was looking on the calender to see what day it was on..and in big letters it was like BAND FESTAVIL!!
Ryan: I was like
Ryan: shit
Me: *looks down at her hands* its alright. i guess.
Ryan: no its not....I want you to have a good b-day this year.. i know your past meg..
Ryan: *takes her hands and kisses them*
Me: really. its alright. i-i-ill just go on a walk or stay in my room or something.
Ryan: *looks down* meg.. love.. honey.. i really want to be there for you.. but.. ugh.
Me: its ok ry.. ill find something to do. maybe draw a new picture or something.
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i cried. my past has been really dificult for me.. i've never really had a good birthday. something always goes wrong, and everyone always has something to do, even my parents and sister. sometimes they dont even remember. ryan knows all about my past. i really wanted himthere for me.. and im angry with him for not being there with me, i cried.

am i selfish for being angry with him?
 
 
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*jooleeah*
post Mar 5 2005, 09:38 PM
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No, you're not being selfish. What you should do is go watch him at his band festival. It would make him happy and I think that you being there for him would make you happy too. If you can't or don't want to do that, then just plan your day with him another day. It doesn't specifically have to be on your birthday, right?
 

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Ombra   am i selfish?   Mar 5 2005, 01:41 PM
xj_liana_tx   no.. but he is a good bf.   Mar 5 2005, 01:56 PM
_sarcastic_   i don't think you're selfish, just don...   Mar 5 2005, 03:44 PM
Shattered_Hope   Because of your past, I don't think you're...   Mar 5 2005, 04:27 PM
cRaZiiXbEauTiFul   QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Mar 5 2005, 4:27 PM)Be...   Mar 5 2005, 09:38 PM
yukichan   QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Mar 5 2005, 11:27 AM)B...   Mar 6 2005, 09:37 PM
InvisiblePopcorn   Why do you have to celebrate your birthday ON your...   Mar 5 2005, 06:12 PM
espionage   Does he really have to be with you on your birthda...   Mar 5 2005, 07:10 PM
leeniex3   Why can't you go to his band festival thing to...   Mar 5 2005, 09:27 PM
Skyline Drive   QUOTE(leeniex3 @ Mar 5 2005, 9:27 PM)Why can...   Mar 5 2005, 09:34 PM
aznhunnie6o1   Of course your not selfish hun', you just want...   Mar 5 2005, 09:34 PM
jooleeah   No, you're not being selfish. What you should ...   Mar 5 2005, 09:38 PM
x_angawhomps   Omg that's so cheesy.. hahahhaaha. Anyways, y...   Mar 5 2005, 09:47 PM
Chii   QUOTE(InvisiblePopcorn @ Mar 5 2005, 6:12 PM)...   Mar 5 2005, 11:47 PM
ilauqh   i dont think you're being selfish because of y...   Mar 5 2005, 11:49 PM
silver rain   Hah, that's like situations I've been in b...   Mar 5 2005, 11:54 PM
BitterSweetness   you're not selfish with what you have endured ...   Mar 6 2005, 12:16 PM
cewinee   hell no ur not selfish i'm really sorry tha...   Mar 6 2005, 01:27 PM
EmmalieV   QUOTE(cewinee @ Mar 6 2005, 2:27 PM)hell no u...   Mar 6 2005, 09:23 PM
X-Zeifer   Go to the festival for your birthday if you can...   Mar 6 2005, 04:29 PM
Stupidxaimee   Naw, i don't think you're being selfish. I...   Mar 6 2005, 09:50 PM
Ombra   hey y'all thanks so much for the advice. we...   Mar 7 2005, 03:23 PM
cHuNsAbAbIe012   ur not selfish, u just feel let down and that...   Mar 7 2005, 03:51 PM
Shortiiex   you're not selffish you just want to be happy   Mar 7 2005, 04:00 PM
Cake.   Your boyfriend seems sweet lol. Anywho, it's ...   Mar 7 2005, 05:31 PM
xXMomoBubbleTeaXx   OMG?!??!?!...but yur boyfriend is soOo...   Mar 7 2005, 05:47 PM


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