GuiLt..., i feel so bad for my exes... |
 Mar 4 2005, 02:53 AM
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iunno why, every time i dump a guy, i feel so guilty. -__________-X like, once, i went out with a guy because i felt sort of sorry for him cuz he said i was the only girl he ever loved. so i agreed to go out with him. but he was.. well.. annoying and a pest and... HE got WAYY on my nerves. and i wanted to break up so bad. but i just didnt have the heart. I ended up making some lame excuse and said i just wanted to be friends... I was so depressed because he hated me afterwards, and now i'm like scared of dumping guys in case it ends up ruining any friendships from before. what do i do to get rid of the guilt?!?!?
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Mar 4 2005, 10:19 AM
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heyy it only means you got a big heart but the things you do that you think benefit the guy only makes it harder for them in the end - so the more guilt you feel and the more pain they get u know? so learn to reject people, in the nicest way possible of course
 dont worry too much about it, there are lotsa a-hole and bitches who reject ppl everyday in the meanest ways, the best you can do is just do it nicely right! don't worry bout wat you did, everyone makes mistakes. Just dont do it again ok? it only makes things worse for the both of you. if you really feel that guilty, you could write your exes that u hurt in that particular way an email, or call em, and express how you feel and apologise, that will get it out of your chest for sure and show them that you care. then i'm sure you'll feel much better :) be happy! ^_^ ur a sweet girl |
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570L3Nxh34r7 GuiLt... Mar 4 2005, 02:53 AM
K!$$ Hmm. You ought to be guilty.
1- You said yes to ... Mar 4 2005, 03:18 AM
rOckThISshYt QUOTE(K!$$ @ Mar 4 2005, 4:18 A... Mar 4 2005, 01:30 PM synkro stop going out with them in the first place... you... Mar 4 2005, 07:14 AM yukichan QUOTE(synkro @ Mar 4 2005, 2:14 AM)stop going... Mar 5 2005, 01:27 AM Nicolatofu Just like it'll take time for you to get over ... Mar 4 2005, 08:00 AM mouse_3k yesterday was the first time I dumped a guy. yah..... Mar 4 2005, 10:33 AM Jorge that was a dope move.
next time a guy is being ... Mar 4 2005, 01:36 PM (>")> Meh...i think if you didnt agree...the same thing ... Mar 4 2005, 05:44 PM Shattered_Hope Your mistakes:
1.)dating him out of pity.
what y... Mar 4 2005, 06:00 PM MyVermilionPlague Maybe you should take a break from dating, because... Mar 4 2005, 06:32 PM dahding u hurt him more than u know. u don't go out wi... Mar 4 2005, 11:14 PM BlissfulIgnorance time heals all pain.. dun worry bout it..i felt gu... Mar 5 2005, 12:41 AM strwbrrykiwi23 you have to just experience with other men again, ... Mar 5 2005, 12:45 AM Spiritual Winged Aura If you broke up with anyone, just dont be " f... Mar 5 2005, 01:38 AM LittleLulu u shudn't feel bad . he deserved it
when i d... Mar 5 2005, 03:49 AM x_y0urElectrikk you can't really do anything.. Time usually he... Mar 5 2005, 11:16 AM sheddingtears you can't really get rid of the guilt.
it... Mar 5 2005, 05:01 PM |
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