"do you like me?", why you can't just say that Options

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everytime i'm stressing out over whether a guy likes me or not, guys always tell me to just go ask him "do you like me?"
and when i'm like "NO!"
they're like "what's the worse that can happen?"
and i'm like "HE'LL SAY NO!!!"

and to tell you the truth, i'd rather spend the rest of the week or month infatuated with this certain guy and playing out whether he likes me or not in my head, rather than hear from him flat out "no". even though he might say yes... if there's a chance that he'd say "no", i wouldn't take it.

and anyways... that's not the worse that can happen!! if he says "no", i'd be embarrassed to death that i asked and i'd probably turn all red and try to brush it off, and in doing so, make myself seem like a complete idiot. it'll probably make me lose all self confidence.

so yeah... why you (or anyone who can relate) CAN'T just go up to a guy and ask him whether he likes you or not.

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

all i can say is...just get ur face out of the gutter n ask him! i mean...wen i liked guys i just told them straight out...either that or all my friends told him! lol! but its really not that embarrasing to tell a guy that u like them. its just a crush so you'll get over him. there are so many other guys that u can get infatuated by. trust me it isnt a big deal. maybe its because im nineteen n i never started telling guys that i like them till i was sixteen but its nothing really. i mean u'll feel let down but u get over it.