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Controlling boyfriend, Taking away my style
troubled_angel
post Mar 3 2005, 06:51 PM
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I have a problem, my boyfriend doesn't like the way I dress, cause I'm gothic. He told i HAVE to start wearing more 'girly" clothes. I don't mind changing a little of my wardrobe for him, but saying no more leather braclets, chains, spikes, and No black clothes what so ever is a little overboard. To me, clothing is just what i like to wear, it doesn't change who i am, i don't see why he can't see that. I really don't want to give everything up, but i want him to be happy. Can anyone help me out here?
 
 
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post Mar 3 2005, 08:26 PM
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wow....that is controling...its not like you tell him what to wear...its your clothes...if he wants different....it shouldnt matter what you wear...but instead what you are...you know? that is so not cool.
 

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troubled_angel   Controlling boyfriend   Mar 3 2005, 06:51 PM
--x who0ps   dont listen to him. do what you want ! it...   Mar 3 2005, 06:57 PM
itzocccckkkkkk   QUOTE(--x who0ps @ Mar 3 2005, 7:57...   Mar 5 2005, 01:51 PM
DaToNeViEtBoI916   tell him, if he truly likes you, then he wouldn...   Mar 3 2005, 07:07 PM
aznhunnie6o1   QUOTE(DaToNeViEtBoI916 @ Mar 3 2005, 7:07 PM)...   Mar 4 2005, 08:46 PM
InvisiblePopcorn   Why is he dating you if he doesn't like the wa...   Mar 3 2005, 07:23 PM
nevernothere   Yea, it doesn't make sense to go out with you ...   Mar 3 2005, 07:24 PM
EmmalieV   Well , if he doesnt like how you dress , why is he...   Mar 3 2005, 08:02 PM
HoodieObsessed   QUOTE(Emmaliev @ Mar 3 2005, 5:02 PM)Well , i...   Mar 3 2005, 10:16 PM
(>")>   wow....that is controling...its not like you tell ...   Mar 3 2005, 08:26 PM
strwbrrykiwi23   don't let anybody else try to change the way y...   Mar 3 2005, 08:31 PM
stephinika   thats ridiculous. he should like you, regardless o...   Mar 3 2005, 08:47 PM
_sarcastic_   QUOTE(stephinika @ Mar 3 2005, 8:47 PM)thats ...   Mar 3 2005, 09:28 PM
ermfermoo   ^Agreed. You should dump him. Seriously.   Mar 3 2005, 08:51 PM
Chii   this is really stupid, get out of the relationship...   Mar 3 2005, 08:53 PM
cHuNsAbAbIe012   he should be with u for who u are. if he wanted to...   Mar 3 2005, 09:39 PM
troubled_angel   Thanx, that helped, i'm gonna talked to him, i...   Mar 3 2005, 09:50 PM
xXirockhardXx   He really shouldnt care how you dress. Isnt the re...   Mar 3 2005, 09:57 PM
xj_liana_tx   i think... well he just wants you to look better f...   Mar 3 2005, 10:05 PM
BitterSweetness   if he truly loves you, he wouldn't ask for you...   Mar 3 2005, 10:07 PM
Jenna123   don't let him control you, women are supposed ...   Mar 3 2005, 10:10 PM
perfectxflaw23   He should love everything about you. After all, it...   Mar 3 2005, 10:23 PM
laur3nw   Why are you still with him? A guy should like you...   Mar 3 2005, 11:52 PM
barelyy_coherent   Tell him to screw off - he's supposed to like ...   Mar 4 2005, 12:05 AM
MyVermilionPlague   QUOTEtell him, if he truly likes you, then he woul...   Mar 4 2005, 12:09 AM
cewinee   yeah he's an ass if he thinks he can tell you ...   Mar 4 2005, 01:17 AM
yukichan   if he does like u, then he shouldnt be saying that...   Mar 4 2005, 02:03 AM
xxaznxgurlxx   you should dump him becuz if he really does truly ...   Mar 4 2005, 05:07 PM
X-Zeifer   He should like you for your personality not your c...   Mar 4 2005, 06:54 PM
sheepy   if he really loves you, he'll accept you for w...   Mar 4 2005, 08:44 PM
Maestro   I think that you should go with your heart. Do wha...   Mar 4 2005, 08:48 PM
K!$$   QUOTE(alvin_ward155 @ Mar 5 2005, 9:48 AM)I t...   Mar 5 2005, 10:29 AM
x_y0urElectrikk   Defffffinetly dont listen to him!! Find s...   Mar 5 2005, 11:00 AM
kikyoudefender   You deserve a boyfriend who would love you for you...   Mar 5 2005, 04:11 PM
Frankie   if is a good boyfriend, he will like you for you a...   Mar 5 2005, 04:18 PM


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