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Controlling boyfriend, Taking away my style
troubled_angel
post Mar 3 2005, 06:51 PM
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I have a problem, my boyfriend doesn't like the way I dress, cause I'm gothic. He told i HAVE to start wearing more 'girly" clothes. I don't mind changing a little of my wardrobe for him, but saying no more leather braclets, chains, spikes, and No black clothes what so ever is a little overboard. To me, clothing is just what i like to wear, it doesn't change who i am, i don't see why he can't see that. I really don't want to give everything up, but i want him to be happy. Can anyone help me out here?
 
 
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InvisiblePopcorn
post Mar 3 2005, 07:23 PM
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Why is he dating you if he doesn't like the way you dress? If he truely liked you, he wouldn't care what you wore. I agree with the others; if he keeps telling you to change, dump him.
 

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troubled_angel   Controlling boyfriend   Mar 3 2005, 06:51 PM
--x who0ps   dont listen to him. do what you want ! it...   Mar 3 2005, 06:57 PM
itzocccckkkkkk   QUOTE(--x who0ps @ Mar 3 2005, 7:57...   Mar 5 2005, 01:51 PM
DaToNeViEtBoI916   tell him, if he truly likes you, then he wouldn...   Mar 3 2005, 07:07 PM
aznhunnie6o1   QUOTE(DaToNeViEtBoI916 @ Mar 3 2005, 7:07 PM)...   Mar 4 2005, 08:46 PM
InvisiblePopcorn   Why is he dating you if he doesn't like the wa...   Mar 3 2005, 07:23 PM
nevernothere   Yea, it doesn't make sense to go out with you ...   Mar 3 2005, 07:24 PM
EmmalieV   Well , if he doesnt like how you dress , why is he...   Mar 3 2005, 08:02 PM
HoodieObsessed   QUOTE(Emmaliev @ Mar 3 2005, 5:02 PM)Well , i...   Mar 3 2005, 10:16 PM
(>")>   wow....that is controling...its not like you tell ...   Mar 3 2005, 08:26 PM
strwbrrykiwi23   don't let anybody else try to change the way y...   Mar 3 2005, 08:31 PM
stephinika   thats ridiculous. he should like you, regardless o...   Mar 3 2005, 08:47 PM
_sarcastic_   QUOTE(stephinika @ Mar 3 2005, 8:47 PM)thats ...   Mar 3 2005, 09:28 PM
ermfermoo   ^Agreed. You should dump him. Seriously.   Mar 3 2005, 08:51 PM
Chii   this is really stupid, get out of the relationship...   Mar 3 2005, 08:53 PM
cHuNsAbAbIe012   he should be with u for who u are. if he wanted to...   Mar 3 2005, 09:39 PM
troubled_angel   Thanx, that helped, i'm gonna talked to him, i...   Mar 3 2005, 09:50 PM
xXirockhardXx   He really shouldnt care how you dress. Isnt the re...   Mar 3 2005, 09:57 PM
xj_liana_tx   i think... well he just wants you to look better f...   Mar 3 2005, 10:05 PM
BitterSweetness   if he truly loves you, he wouldn't ask for you...   Mar 3 2005, 10:07 PM
Jenna123   don't let him control you, women are supposed ...   Mar 3 2005, 10:10 PM
perfectxflaw23   He should love everything about you. After all, it...   Mar 3 2005, 10:23 PM
laur3nw   Why are you still with him? A guy should like you...   Mar 3 2005, 11:52 PM
barelyy_coherent   Tell him to screw off - he's supposed to like ...   Mar 4 2005, 12:05 AM
MyVermilionPlague   QUOTEtell him, if he truly likes you, then he woul...   Mar 4 2005, 12:09 AM
cewinee   yeah he's an ass if he thinks he can tell you ...   Mar 4 2005, 01:17 AM
yukichan   if he does like u, then he shouldnt be saying that...   Mar 4 2005, 02:03 AM
xxaznxgurlxx   you should dump him becuz if he really does truly ...   Mar 4 2005, 05:07 PM
X-Zeifer   He should like you for your personality not your c...   Mar 4 2005, 06:54 PM
sheepy   if he really loves you, he'll accept you for w...   Mar 4 2005, 08:44 PM
Maestro   I think that you should go with your heart. Do wha...   Mar 4 2005, 08:48 PM
K!$$   QUOTE(alvin_ward155 @ Mar 5 2005, 9:48 AM)I t...   Mar 5 2005, 10:29 AM
x_y0urElectrikk   Defffffinetly dont listen to him!! Find s...   Mar 5 2005, 11:00 AM
kikyoudefender   You deserve a boyfriend who would love you for you...   Mar 5 2005, 04:11 PM
Frankie   if is a good boyfriend, he will like you for you a...   Mar 5 2005, 04:18 PM


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