Rejection & Forgiving Options

[seremela_culnamo]

What do you think is worse: Rejecting someone or being rejected? & are you a "forgiver" and someone who pretends that it never happened afterwards? (In terms of knowing them as friends, close or not, before it all happened. & in terms of "forgiving", you become great friends after a long while).

I seriously think both of them are quite bad.

- Being rejected: Been through that, but guys at my age, are still immature compared to us girls. So they just ignore you, which totally crushes me.

- Rejected a friend: It kills me, too. Especially if they try to flirt with you (even in front of your friends and you don't want to say anything mean to him. him coming up and asking you for a hug when you just gave one of your girl friends one is quite weird, especially in front of your friends!).

- I'm a forgiving person: You can't control your emotions & if you're real true friends, you wouldn't stop your relationship just because of these things. But yea, it still slightly changes my point of view of him whenever I look at him or talk. O-well. One day you will get over it.

[angel-roh]

being rejected --- very not good. i hate getting rejections especially asking someone to the school dances.
rejecting someone --- worse.... i hate doing that. well depends on what personality/physically he is hehe.
forgiving someone --- i think that's ok because im good at forgiving hehe.

I think getting rejected is a very huge thing to me. that's like the worse thing for me. Like when you're in american idol or america next top model... you get rejected...you know how that feels, as if you're not good enough to be in the public area heh... gives you that depression look. i hate getting rejection hhehh.