Shyness..., ruins it |
 Jan 22 2005, 02:16 AM
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There's this guy I like in my class, and I'm pretty sure he 'likes' me 'cause he tries to talk to me, he plays with my hair etc. -when he normally acts like he doesn't care 'bout girls-like NOTHING.
I've told a couple of people that aren't in my school about this and they told me to get a mate and...ask him who he likes and sorta do the trick- get him ask me out, but I REALLY can't do this 'cause in my school it's just...almost like a crime to tell people who you like. It spreads to the whole school in less than a day and it's just embarassing...if I do that it'll probably be dead end 'cause he'll freak out- and I don't know if I can deal with all that pressure of people teasing and shyt. The problem though, is we're both shy...and I just hope he could...y'know ask me out or something. Sorry ithis sounds so confusing -but I really dunno wat to do 
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Feb 2 2005, 06:43 AM
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OMFG guys...he just went online (once and only time) and he asked me who I like. I told him I like him. I dunno what happened but I asked him who he likes and he said "actually nobody". I feel SO bad, sooo lame. I am dying :( And after that he said bye.
That's all I got. I think he hates me now. :( |
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Mar 1 2005, 10:52 PM
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QUOTE(mistaken_identity @ Feb 2 2005, 6:43 AM) OMFG guys...he just went online (once and only time) and he asked me who I like. I told him I like him. I dunno what happened but I asked him who he likes and he said "actually nobody". I feel SO bad, sooo lame. I am dying :( And after that he said bye. That's all I got. I think he hates me now. :(  Referring to my previous reply, that's why I try not to like guys I know already. Since whenever that happened, it never worked out. Then again, I always try to get to know them through MSN or something first. So yea. But it always ruin our friendship  I seriously don't have a clue about guys.My friends are ALWAYS coming me for advice about relationships, & usually whatever I say, it turns out for the better. But for me, I'm clueless in this area and have never been in a relationship whatsoever before 
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Posts in this topic
mistaken_identity Shyness... Jan 22 2005, 02:16 AM
yanners maybe you should write him a note...or call him. ... Jan 22 2005, 02:47 AM
xSWEETxCANDiix QUOTE(x__forever @ Jan 21 2005, 11:47 PM)mayb... Jan 22 2005, 04:09 AM
RUN_away123 QUOTE(xSWEETxCANDiix @ Jan 22 2005, 4:09 AM)a... Jan 30 2005, 09:19 PM broken_lance QUOTE(x__forever @ Jan 22 2005, 2:47 AM)maybe... Jan 22 2005, 09:22 AM yukichan QUOTE(x__forever @ Jan 21 2005, 9:47 PM)maybe... Jan 22 2005, 03:40 PM sunissed14127 QUOTE(x__forever @ Jan 22 2005, 1:47 AM)maybe... Jan 31 2005, 09:34 PM electric shock ^ congrats!!
Well, yeah. Write a note. O... Jan 22 2005, 02:51 AM bad_girl yeah, it goes around our school in less than a day... Jan 22 2005, 02:53 AM mistaken_identity Is it really lame if I ask him out? I mean is ther... Jan 22 2005, 06:10 AM _sarcastic_ like the above said, write him a note. no it is ... Jan 22 2005, 07:26 AM mistaken_identity Thanks loads for the advice, guys. I'll try...... Jan 22 2005, 08:22 AM xd0rkette QUOTE(mistaken_identity @ Jan 22 2005, 9:22 A... Jan 22 2005, 05:50 PM yanners no..girls asking guys out is NOT lame...ahhaah tha... Jan 22 2005, 10:08 AM gponce10104 call him or something..aim him..theres lots of stu... Jan 22 2005, 10:14 AM Shattered_Hope tell him...face to face.. Jan 22 2005, 05:17 PM silver rain yeah, i'm really shy too. but when i'm wit... Jan 22 2005, 05:27 PM sheddingtears shyness really sucks, like you lose great opportun... Jan 22 2005, 06:06 PM LEDO_D0RKETTE Why don't you just ask him, or call him up? I ... Jan 22 2005, 07:12 PM mistaken_identity Thanks for y'all replies. Jan 23 2005, 05:08 AM sammehmyst It's never lame to ask someone out. It just sh... Jan 23 2005, 11:31 AM Shortiiex I am shy too, but try to go over your shyness like... Jan 23 2005, 12:46 PM stephinika yeah i used to be shy, but not so much anymore. if... Jan 23 2005, 02:55 PM mistaken_identity I said I'd try what you guys said, hey. Thanks... Jan 25 2005, 09:21 AM brand0n well maybe he really likes u but he duznt really n... Jan 30 2005, 08:04 PM brand0n QUOTEme
u! Jan 30 2005, 08:06 PM avalon* if the guy seems clueless about girls usually, the... Jan 30 2005, 10:25 PM heidi8822 ya there's this guy i like at the school im at... Jan 30 2005, 11:05 PM mistaken_identity Wow thanks for all replies. =D
They were great, s... Jan 31 2005, 08:40 AM Zz4evaJeLLo07 awz.. dun be afraid to ask him PERSONALLY... dun a... Jan 31 2005, 08:43 PM mistaken_identity PLEASE someone please help me =( Feb 2 2005, 07:56 AM michelina~kudelka You guys must be in grade school still, sounds rea... Mar 1 2005, 07:03 PM seremela_culnamo When it comes to these mushy stuff, I'm pathet... Mar 1 2005, 10:49 PM |
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