Shyness..., ruins it Options

[mistaken_identit...]

There's this guy I like in my class, and I'm pretty sure he 'likes' me 'cause he tries to talk to me, he plays with my hair etc. -when he normally acts like he doesn't care 'bout girls-like NOTHING.

I've told a couple of people that aren't in my school about this and they told me to get a mate and...ask him who he likes and sorta do the trick- get him ask me out, but I REALLY can't do this 'cause in my school it's just...almost like a crime to tell people who you like. It spreads to the whole school in less than a day and it's just embarassing...if I do that it'll probably be dead end 'cause he'll freak out- and I don't know if I can deal with all that pressure of people teasing and shyt.

The problem though, is we're both shy...and I just hope he could...y'know ask me out or something.

Sorry ithis sounds so confusing -but I really dunno wat to do

[seremela_culnamo]

When it comes to these mushy stuff, I'm pathetic

Bad thing is that once a guy becomes my friend, I will never like him more than just a friend. So consquently, I always have crushes for guys I don't know. Not good either, especially from someone who's way too shy to go up to a guy and talk to him.

I swear, I'm one of the most shyest person you will ever come across. - Let's just say that once back in grade 7, people made me try to dance with this guy I liked (he knew and he liked me back. but i found out he was a player later). I wouldn't, so this big guy I knew, he dragged me across the gym. But I fell, and he still dragged me by the legs, but I still wouldn't dance. Fortunately (?), a teacher saw and told him off for pulling me.