Am I out of line? |
 Feb 27 2005, 03:31 PM
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I have been with my now, fiance for 3 years, we love each other dearly, but we were talking yesterday and what came out of his mouth truly upset me. We were talking about him getting turned on...and then he goes "I mean, guys get turned on at least 4 times a day" By a pretty girl or whatever. But then he was like "It's not like I walk around with a hard-on all day" Then he goes yeah, I'll see a pretty girl and be like "She's pretty. Cool" and that's it. But...I mean, I'm a girl, and I know we're different than guys, but it honestly hurts me so much when he says stuff like that, knowing that EVERYDAY he's turned on by someone else, and I don't give another guy a second glance. I got really frustrated, and to be honest, I'm EXTREMELY pissed, I just feel offended, ya know? This to me, is complicated. I'm not really a jealous person, but I feel like there are things that should and shouldn't happen, and I don't think he SHOULD be turned on by another girl...or other girls for that matter. I'm really upset, and it changed the way I look at him because I always thought he was..."better" than that. Am I out of line for feeling this way? Do you think it's normal? What would you do?
Thanks... 
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Feb 28 2005, 08:34 PM
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I have absolutly no experience with this but I jsut wanted to give my opinion:
I think that you shouldn't get too worried or anything, it's true all guys are different, but they do all carry traits that are the same...he can't help getting turned on y other girls...it's not like he's goign out with them or sometihng, if he's getting engaged to you he must really love you...I don'tt hink him getting turned on by other girls means he loves you any less, he jsut can't help it...when I was lil, like not that little, around 10 or something I thought my bros were bove having girlfreinds (kinda a weid thought now I think about it..I mean having a girlfreind isn't low, lol, but ya, I was young,give me a break) so anyway, I was really surprised when he told me he liked this girl...I practically went I cried...I'm like "what is the world coming to?"  but ya, I got over it...it's sjut one of those things, humans can't help some things, thye jsut come...but I bet your fiance is probably turned on by you more than any other girl 
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x3chrissyx3 Am I out of line? Feb 27 2005, 03:31 PM
xj_liana_tx you can't help it, guys are truly like that, b... Feb 27 2005, 03:44 PM cocoalightning27 Yes, guys can't help it...your never gonna fin... Feb 27 2005, 03:53 PM nevernothere QUOTE(x3chrissyx3 @ Feb 27 2005, 2:31 PM)But.... Feb 27 2005, 03:59 PM FoOd Well, sorry to say this, but most guys think with ... Feb 27 2005, 04:00 PM Mistrunner Like everyone else said, he can't help it. Jus... Feb 27 2005, 04:05 PM silver rain Yeah, I kinda know how you're feeling. I can g... Feb 27 2005, 04:32 PM xXirockhardXx Hmmm the good thing is that his not cheating on yo... Feb 27 2005, 04:39 PM strwbrrykiwi23 he's a guy.
guys have to be guys. Feb 27 2005, 04:42 PM Shortiiex he a typical man...he get turned on my other girls... Feb 27 2005, 05:08 PM sheepy yeah; what everyone else says.
just because other... Feb 27 2005, 09:25 PM _confuzed_ i'm sure he doesn't mean bad. all guys loo... Feb 27 2005, 11:43 PM toodlepops. guys are like that. he might think the other girls... Feb 28 2005, 02:39 AM cube4080 Yes, you're a little out of line. He's tel... Feb 28 2005, 06:05 AM Boyfriendless I know what you mean, my friends BF, keeps talking... Feb 28 2005, 06:15 AM _sarcastic_ ^ i agree with cube4080
it's better for him to... Feb 28 2005, 06:19 AM eunie03 How are you fiance's with that level of trust.... Feb 28 2005, 06:21 AM
Boyfriendless QUOTE(eunie03 @ Feb 28 2005, 3:21 AM)How are ... Feb 28 2005, 06:23 AM eunie03 QUOTE(Boyfriendless @ Feb 28 2005, 6:23 AM)ew... Feb 28 2005, 06:26 AM Boyfriendless QUOTE(eunie03 @ Feb 28 2005, 3:26 AM)As it is... Feb 28 2005, 06:37 AM eunie03 Oh... I guess he's old school. Damn, I feel ol... Feb 28 2005, 06:40 AM kyuubi319 Oh, I absolutely adore Tom Cruise.. he's so yu... Feb 28 2005, 08:40 AM yanners well...he is a guy. but you should talk to him ab... Feb 28 2005, 09:02 AM Shattered_Hope I don't think you're out of line. You love... Feb 28 2005, 06:53 PM jenknee honesty is beautiful. but i think he inappropriate... Feb 28 2005, 08:17 PM x shootingstar x as everyone said, he's a guy.. and guys can... Feb 28 2005, 08:40 PM |
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