how awkward., parents and their assumptions... |
| *stephinika* |
 Feb 28 2005, 01:42 AM
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okay well this is kind of a ranty post but there is a point i swear...
well i went away to whistler from friday to sunday with my best guy friend and his family...now we're nothing more than that and i have a boyfriend... so anyways, i'm really close with this guy and yeah so i hug him a lot and whatnot but that's normal...and on the way home in the car i was sleeping and leaning on him. thats not that bad is it? and we went to the hot tub at the hotel together alone (like just us 2)...and duh we didn't do anything bad. and we're both 16 btw. and we're asian. anyways, when we got home we were chatting and he said his mom was mad but wouldn't say why...eventually she did. she thought we were too "close" (for ex. the leaning in the car, hot tub) and according to him her view of me has "changed". crap. what the eff...how awkward is that. what would you do in this situation? he's going to talk to her tomorrow he said when he gives her the thank you card from me (my mom told me to give them one and yeah thats understandable since they took me with them) so yeah i hope he fixes it but still...he didn't say it but i understand what she's thinking - his mom thinks i'm a ho.  opinions? what would you do? etc... sorry its long. but yeah. this is kinda upsetting...i thought she liked me. well she did. but yeah. bleah. 
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Feb 28 2005, 06:30 PM
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For some reason i feel as if most asian parents are like that but i wouldn't know. I think what you did was fine but from my parents point of view they would think that as disrespectful to the family. They would just get pissed off at me and my boyfriend if we held hands, hugged, or if i was in his arms when we are at the house or around them and family memebers. Maybe its because we aint old enough or something; I dont know maybe its how elders think.
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stephinika how awkward. Feb 28 2005, 01:42 AM
barelyy_coherent That is quite upsetting. I understand your situati... Feb 28 2005, 02:23 AM
K!$$ QUOTE(barelyy_coherent @ Feb 28 2005, 3:23 PM... Feb 28 2005, 04:02 AM stephinika thanks for the advice guys...and i'm sorry to ... Feb 28 2005, 10:34 AM MyVermilionPlague Ah, I'm sorry about your situation. =/
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I... Feb 28 2005, 11:59 AM Programmer damn Haterz....
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hey st... Feb 28 2005, 12:04 PM stephinika thanks brie & rico...i'll try my best to d... Feb 28 2005, 02:43 PM dahding oh come on steph, u can't let ur friend's ... Feb 28 2005, 03:16 PM stephinika hehe dustin you rock my socks. i'm slowly fee... Feb 28 2005, 03:19 PM dahding QUOTE(stephinika @ Feb 28 2005, 3:19 PM)hehe ... Feb 28 2005, 05:13 PM Skyline Drive I'd have coffee with her and talk to her about... Feb 28 2005, 05:15 PM divinity_star When you talk to her tell her that you have seen t... Feb 28 2005, 05:32 PM Chii sadly...your guy friend's mom will probably ne... Feb 28 2005, 08:04 PM pink_tootsie wow..tell her to eff off!!! hahah j/k... Feb 28 2005, 08:22 PM xj_liana_tx if i say "hi"to a guy, my parents'll... Feb 28 2005, 08:30 PM with_time_it_fades OM My friend assumed that me and a guy friend were... Feb 28 2005, 08:36 PM stephinika yes dustin...aren't i rebel? hehe and yeah i ... Feb 28 2005, 08:54 PM |
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