Cutter. (Not me!!) |
Cutter. (Not me!!) |
Feb 25 2005, 05:04 PM
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My best friend's boyfriend doesnt cut. but does things to hurt himself because of what people do to him. He has a few cuts but not bad. Shes like cried to get him to stop but nothing she says works. and I'm close friends w/ him to. what do I do?
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Feb 27 2005, 10:31 PM
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Brie ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Personally, I don't think there is much you can do.
I have been at both ends of a situation like this.. I've been the cutter, and I've been the concerned friend. Either way, it's a tough situation and it's hard to deal with. If you talk to them and tell them you care, they most likely won't do anything about their habit unless they only cut for attention...then they may quit. Overall, there really isn't a whole lot you can do. Talk to him? If he won't listen and it gets to be a really bad thing, then maybe talk to his parents. I don't know. |
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UrF4vL!pGl0Zz1212 Cutter. (Not me!!) Feb 25 2005, 05:04 PM
iheartsimba it's his dicision...you can only talk to him..... Feb 25 2005, 05:05 PM
_sarcastic_ wait first you said he doesn't cut, then you s... Feb 25 2005, 05:16 PM
ItzOnlySydney i'm a cutter.not proud nor ahsamed of it. make... Feb 25 2005, 05:21 PM
UrF4vL!pGl0Zz1212 well I meant he didnt cut regularly. Feb 25 2005, 05:21 PM
mouse_3k U cant really help him..
QUOTEi'm a cutter.not... Feb 25 2005, 05:33 PM
UrF4vL!pGl0Zz1212 Ok thank you guys. Feb 25 2005, 05:43 PM
LEDO_D0RKETTE Tell him to stop doing it. If that doesn't wor... Feb 25 2005, 07:09 PM
tofuburger QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Feb 25 2005, 7:09 PM)Te... Feb 27 2005, 01:16 AM
leeniex3 you can try to talk to him and say that your gonna... Feb 25 2005, 08:38 PM
mishyerr I used to cut. Tell her to tell one of his guy fri... Feb 26 2005, 01:15 PM
Frankie try to get him some help. he will have to be the o... Feb 26 2005, 01:18 PM
sheepy well there is not a lot you can do. my bf used to ... Feb 26 2005, 04:19 PM
JustaMomentPlease i think that cuttin is bad// i'd try to preven... Feb 26 2005, 08:17 PM
perfectxflaw23 All you can do is try to be there for him and try ... Feb 27 2005, 10:03 AM
illfadedsoldier dont blackmail that puts more pressure and shit on... Feb 27 2005, 06:45 PM
potmonkeyjd if any of you r intrested i wrote a story about my... Feb 27 2005, 06:48 PM
dahding u let him cut until one day, he dies. or u smack h... Feb 27 2005, 07:33 PM![]() ![]() |