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Hateful Ex, help
musicjunkie
post Feb 24 2005, 10:48 PM
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Well, two months ago we broke up and we only went out for a month and when we did break up we left on peaceful terms, but from then till now i have heard her talking so much trash about me. I want to know if there is any way i could get her to at the very least be somewhat civil towards me.
 
 
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SimplicityGirl
post Feb 24 2005, 11:07 PM
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Ask her why she's feeling this "hatred" towards you.

Me and my ex only went out for a month too, and after he broke it off with me, I felt hurt and I felt that he should get hurt badly too. So for the first week or so after we broke up, I'd talk badly about him whenever people asked.

So I guess some of the hatred stems from the pain and hurt that she's in. Also, it might be the fact that she just wants to get revenge on you, because that was how I felt after we broke up.

My suggestion: tell her to stop, but don't sound too mean about it. Also give it time, she might still be in shock over this.
 
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post Feb 25 2005, 03:33 AM
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QUOTE(SimplicityGirl @ Feb 24 2005, 9:07 PM)
Ask her why she's feeling this "hatred" towards you.

Me and my ex only went out for a month too, and after he broke it off with me, I felt hurt and I felt that he should get hurt badly too. So for the first week or so after we broke up, I'd talk badly about him whenever people asked.

So I guess some of the hatred stems from the pain and hurt that she's in. Also, it might be the fact that she just wants to get revenge on you, because that was how I felt after we broke up.

My suggestion: tell her to stop, but don't sound too mean about it. Also give it time, she might still be in shock over this.
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i think that`s a good idea. however, if she talks smack, then it`s pretty much her fault. she`s a __add cussing__ shiz talker.

 

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musicjunkie   Hateful Ex   Feb 24 2005, 10:48 PM
UrF4vL!pGl0Zz1212   ask her whats goin on I guess? good luck   Feb 24 2005, 11:03 PM
SimplicityGirl   Ask her why she's feeling this "hatred...   Feb 24 2005, 11:07 PM
my_sunshine   QUOTE(SimplicityGirl @ Feb 24 2005, 9:07 PM)A...   Feb 25 2005, 03:33 AM
BitterSweetness   just talk to her like "hey, i've been hea...   Feb 24 2005, 11:15 PM
Nicolatofu   talk about her! Well actually, you may want to...   Feb 25 2005, 07:31 AM
dahding   its the grieving process most likely. but if it co...   Feb 25 2005, 08:32 AM
stephinika   yeah just talk to her, let her know that what she...   Feb 25 2005, 10:06 AM
ermfermoo   Ask someone whats wrong with her. Because if you t...   Feb 25 2005, 10:09 AM
h0y_Kalbo   yeah, i felt that twice before since my 1st gf bro...   Feb 25 2005, 10:24 AM
Programmer   ok...an ex is an ex for a reason. why the hell do ...   Feb 25 2005, 11:20 AM
mouse_3k   go up to her and fight. if she is gunna say stuff ...   Feb 25 2005, 11:35 AM
xj_liana_tx   talk her about it first, if she doesn't stop, ...   Feb 25 2005, 06:26 PM
LEDO_D0RKETTE   Go up to her & say, "if you have shit to ...   Feb 25 2005, 07:08 PM
EmmalieV   goup to her and ask her.   Feb 25 2005, 09:38 PM
Shattered_Hope   your hateful ex still has feelings for you...that...   Feb 26 2005, 03:19 PM
Frankie   probably not. if y'all are broken up, she will...   Feb 26 2005, 08:12 PM
mzawesome   try to talk to her. say that i heard some stuff yo...   Feb 26 2005, 08:17 PM
mishyerr   Get over her and let her do what she wants. She...   Feb 27 2005, 03:12 PM
sheddingtears   what a loser. maybe she still has feelings for y...   Feb 28 2005, 05:51 AM
spacewicket   shes being childish...damn   Mar 29 2005, 05:52 PM
ChEeR A HOliC Xo   I know when i see my x it`s the same way. I fe...   Mar 29 2005, 08:28 PM
swe3ttemptasian   Ask her, then talk to her about it. You guys left ...   Mar 29 2005, 09:03 PM
spacewicket   relationships are filled with feelings of jealousy...   Mar 29 2005, 09:21 PM
yukichan   talk to her...give her time..it seems like shes re...   Mar 30 2005, 12:51 AM


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