Hateful Ex, help |
Hateful Ex, help |
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![]() That one dude with the headphones ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,015 ![]() |
Well, two months ago we broke up and we only went out for a month and when we did break up we left on peaceful terms, but from then till now i have heard her talking so much trash about me. I want to know if there is any way i could get her to at the very least be somewhat civil towards me.
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![]() Being happy...is all that matters ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 ![]() |
Ask her why she's feeling this "hatred" towards you.
Me and my ex only went out for a month too, and after he broke it off with me, I felt hurt and I felt that he should get hurt badly too. So for the first week or so after we broke up, I'd talk badly about him whenever people asked. So I guess some of the hatred stems from the pain and hurt that she's in. Also, it might be the fact that she just wants to get revenge on you, because that was how I felt after we broke up. My suggestion: tell her to stop, but don't sound too mean about it. Also give it time, she might still be in shock over this. |
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![]() i <3 giraffes & hamsters ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,830 ![]() |
QUOTE(SimplicityGirl @ Feb 24 2005, 9:07 PM) Ask her why she's feeling this "hatred" towards you. Me and my ex only went out for a month too, and after he broke it off with me, I felt hurt and I felt that he should get hurt badly too. So for the first week or so after we broke up, I'd talk badly about him whenever people asked. So I guess some of the hatred stems from the pain and hurt that she's in. Also, it might be the fact that she just wants to get revenge on you, because that was how I felt after we broke up. My suggestion: tell her to stop, but don't sound too mean about it. Also give it time, she might still be in shock over this. i think that`s a good idea. however, if she talks smack, then it`s pretty much her fault. she`s a __add cussing__ shiz talker. |
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