Reason vs. Emotion, yes? yes. |
 Feb 23 2005, 01:15 AM
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Since this is the relationship forum, let's think about the two most contradictory "theories" for relationships. Maybe the word "theories" isn't quite... right for describing these two ideas, but just hear me out. In this forum, at least 80% (probably around 95%, but I'll give the benefit of the doubt) will obey the "reason" rule. They will find which solution to their problem is most "reasonable" and follow that choice. In reality, however, reason will be completely forgotten once emotion takes over. You think this is not true? If it's not, why are there so many cases of infidelities in the world right now? Isn't it "reasonable" to stay married to the same person so you do not jeopardize your life, and the lives of others that are involved in this relationship? (ie. kids) But that isn't the way reality works. Emotion takes over and soon you will find yourself waking up in the bed of your lover. That there, is emotion. Is there any reason for you to cheat on your husband/wife BEFORE getting a divorce? No. This also applies to relationships, and seeing how young this forum is... it most probably only applies to relationships and not marriage. Conclusion: Stop giving responses to ideas based on reason, base it on emotion. Disclaimer: I write this message purely for the enlightnment of the members of this forum and no one is forced to read and/or agree to it's concepts. |
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Feb 24 2005, 08:45 PM
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Hm. I would say, it is 'morally' incorrect because of religion and all that blah-di-blah. But, is it truly emotinally satisfying for YOU to cheat on the one that you are in love with. I'm basing my response as if the 'person' had actually been in love with the person he or she married. Would it really be satisfying to leave that person so you can go f**k around? I don't think it would satisfy your emotions. I know two singers, whom, once they almost got famous, ditched their spouses. In the end, they were left with total nothingness but depression and a great voice. That is why reason is something mixed into emotion, for without emotion, there is no reason, and without reason, there is no emotion.
You have no offended me. I delighted in reading this and replying. Good question, too. ;] |
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visualfusion Reason vs. Emotion Feb 23 2005, 01:15 AM
K!$$ Yes, you're right. But sometimes when we let ... Feb 23 2005, 08:42 AM ApoKa But that's his point. We can't control ... Feb 23 2005, 09:14 AM royalfreshness i agree, completely. i think that emotions defini... Feb 23 2005, 10:18 AM stephinika i completely agree. i myself am an extremely emoti... Feb 23 2005, 10:38 AM sheepy ooh i really think you're right. people give a... Feb 23 2005, 10:41 AM xkimlaura wow. i usually listen to my heart. cus life withou... Feb 23 2005, 02:11 PM x_y0urElectrikk SO true. I was thinking the same! People giv... Feb 23 2005, 04:08 PM largosama the ones who have been able to suppress emotions a... Feb 23 2005, 11:45 PM perfectxflaw23 I agree with that. But if you come asking for advi... Feb 24 2005, 02:43 PM DaToNeViEtBoI916 What you feel is right for yourself isn't alwa... Feb 24 2005, 06:14 PM visualfusion I think I might need to restate what I put as the ... Feb 28 2005, 10:18 PM Shattered_Hope umm..you have a point...? Is that what you wante... Mar 1 2005, 08:53 PM angel_revelation i think that you need a good amount of both... an... Mar 1 2005, 11:27 PM
rainnydaiis I believe if there is emotion there is no reason..... Mar 1 2005, 11:35 PM |
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