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[usernamex]

i dunno what to do.

i liked this guy and he liked me back. we went out for about 2 monthes. then i told him that i didn't really like him as a boyfriend, just as a friend. that was about.. 5 months ago. now we joke about it.

then.. there's my best friend. when i was going out with him, she liked him. when i broke up with him, she still had a thing for him. now, the my ex likes her and of course, she likes him.

i have no problem with that.

but the effin thing that hurts like hck is that my best friend didn't tell me that they are going out. what the f*ck is wrong with that? i had to find this out through.. my EX.

right now, i`m pissed, confused, hurt and most of all.. feel betrayed.

what the heck am i supposed to do?

[Archana]

I'd be pissed too, its normal..
She probably didn't want to hurt you, & thought you'd feel uneasy about it.
You should confront her, it'll be hard, but dont raise your voice.

Be like "Hi .. I found out ____ from ___. Before you say antyhing, hear me out. It really hurt that you didnt tell me first. I've always been there for you, & I'd respect your opinion like you'd respect mine. But now, I'm not sure that you respect me or not. If you respected me & my space, you would have told me first that you were seeing him. Surprises aren't exactly the friendliest thing.. & I'd really like to know why you didnt tell me. You should know that I'd listen to you whenever you need me to.

I'm Hurt.
K. bye. (="