love, more to it? Options

[cewinee]

do you think love can be so much more than just a romantic aspect?

like it can help you and ur gf/bf strive to such great heights (together)? even for the future. i dunno how else to put it. tell me if i need to be more specific..

cuz i believe it is.

If you mean helping each other striving for your goals in the future, then tes. Having a romantic relationship with someone, but also being their companion shows a strong relationship and with that they can help each other in the future.

yeah thats wat i meant. my bf and i have been together for 2years now in a long distant relationship visiting each other every 2-3months. through the time and distance we've been apart, we've only grown closer than ever rather than apart n that really means something.. we've both made such great impacts in each others lives from the begining n achieved so much.. we're in a very serious relationship and he loves me more than anything in the world.

however, recently he's gotten so terrified that he might've gotten in my way of a better future for me (its long & complicated) saying he's scared that he wont give me wat i deserve in the future.. n told me i should set him & our relationship aside until im done with college.. i went crazy, it was hard for him as it was for me. all i wanted was to get through all this with him. i knew we could do this cuz we've gone thru so much for the passed 2years.. he thought it would be for my best.

later we settled our issues and i reminded him of the dreams & goals we always had together & that wat we have will help us strive through it together as it has for the passed 2 years, why stop now? see where our love can take us even further.. why stop something thats not even damaged? our love is so extremely strong.. i dunno i hope im making sense. but yeah.. we're still together =.) thank god

i guess he got cold feet or somethin like that, but he's so relieved that i talked him into his senses cuz he had so much on his mind and was getting scared of the future getting near. it is a scarey thing..

so love/strong relationship can help me strive through our goals together right?
cuz i strongly believe it does..

[Just_Dream]

^ I'm glad that you and him worked it out... Sure there are times where I'm scared about what might happen in the future.. But talking it out is important. It's good that you didn't die because truly, I know deep down he would feel terrible. Please don't hurt yourself...

Everyone's scared of something. There's been so many times where I would break down and cry and be scared about what might happen.. About how things are going wrong in my life... And although sometimes it involves what my boyfriend might've said to me or maybe what happened in my family, but eventually he says sorry.

You two should make a promise.. a promise that in the future that you two would try to be together. And if you two ever do go on a "break," which I hope doesn't happen, remind him that you still love him and that you'll keep that promise alive. I promised to myself that I'd keep Tony and mine's relationship going... that I'd try to make things work, despite our different goals in life.

Your welcome :] I agree, it's nice to know that someone else is going through the same thing as me. There was a time where I went through a state of depression and a lot of things made me cry and things that my boyfriend said would easily irritate me, get me angry, then make me cry... But the fact that I got over that and that he's been so supportive of me made me realize how important he truly meant to me.

I'm sure that your boyfriend has changed your life in so many ways. This is significant because it's an element of true love... :]

[*stephinika*]

I'm sure that your boyfriend has changed your life in so many ways. This is significant because it's an element of true love... :]

so true. relationships and love are something that the two people have that can be just oh so special but they must work together y'know? i can't explain but yeah...i'm glad to hear things are working out for you guys. long distance relationships must be difficult from what i've heard.