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 Feb 20 2005, 01:46 AM
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I'm 17 and I have a boyfriend of almost 12 months. It feels like we're still in love with each other but sometimes it just fades then it comes back again. We have been arguing alot and disagreeing, it seems like the only thing keeping us together is the sex and the fact that we've been through so much together. I feel like I'm just staying because I can't bear to move on but sometimes I want to move on so bad because it's like we aren't compatible as we used to be anymore. Well, there's this guy that works right across from me and we always smile at each other, then one day he starts talking to me and asked me to lunch. We talked for a long time and I felt happy, I actually felt happy. Now he likes me but he knows I have a boyfriend. He's 23 and he doesn't want to pursuit anything because I don't turn 18 til September and he doesn't know whether I would accept him. I know I love my boyfriend, I care about him, but...maybe I'm not IN LOVE with him? Sometimes I feel so trapped, I just want to fly away. PLease help and leave suggestions or advices!
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Feb 20 2005, 12:18 PM
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QUOTE Shattered_Hope Posted: Feb 20 2005, 12:27 PM the fact that you said this: I know I love my boyfriend, I care about him, but...maybe I'm not IN LOVE with him? Being able to say this says alot of things...the fact that you're unsure as to where you should be...Why don't you take a break? Sex shouldn't be the only thing that's saving the relationship. It's the fact that you can talk about things without arguing and have agreements. The only reason you feel guilty after you've been with John is because you're already with someone else...[your b/f]. Maybe.....you should end things now before you have any more doubts and go for "John" instead. ^ what she said |
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thekillersfan24 PLEASE READ: real love situation Feb 20 2005, 01:46 AM
thekillersfan24 today I went to lunch with him again. I'll jus... Feb 20 2005, 01:47 AM yukichan uhhhh...if u dont love ur boyfriend anymore, y be ... Feb 20 2005, 01:51 AM angel_revelation maybe you should just break up, and try being on y... Feb 20 2005, 02:10 AM K!$$ Like nekochan1018 says, why be with your boyfriend... Feb 20 2005, 02:24 AM Spiritual Winged Aura Choose the one that benefits you the most. Feb 20 2005, 02:29 AM K!$$ ^ Benefit? That's harsh. And pretty shallow.... Feb 20 2005, 02:36 AM xSWEETxCANDiix Hmm..what a tough situation.. Well..it seems like... Feb 20 2005, 04:31 AM _sarcastic_ like everyone says, i think you should go with thi... Feb 20 2005, 07:25 AM swe3ttemptasian awW... that's exactly how I felt for the past ... Feb 20 2005, 11:18 AM Shattered_Hope the fact that you said this: I know I love my boyf... Feb 20 2005, 11:27 AM silver rain You know, once in a while, I feel like that with m... Feb 20 2005, 02:58 PM Shortiiex it could be just cupid messing with you, relations... Feb 20 2005, 06:30 PM
Programmer lmao...this is hilarious...but on a serious note..... Feb 20 2005, 06:38 PM |
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